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I learned how to have ruined orgasms three days ago. My ruin count by now is 11, to 0 real orgasms since then. I’m not sure what I’ve done and if i should be terrified or excited. – Joy
Oh Joy, how delightful! They say if you ruin 30 orgasms in a row it […]
I just had my first ruined orgasm :( -omis
Good work. It won’t be your last…
I’ve read most of what you’ve written about ruined orgasms but I think I might be different… or something. What you describe as “how to ruin an orgasm” is something I’ve done quite a lot, and honestly, it feels just as good as any orgasm I’ve ever had. I don’t get a crash or that amplified need feeling. And anyway, even if I don’t deliberately stop all stimulation, I’m immediately too sensitive to keep going anyway. Have you encountered this before? Or have ALL my orgasms been ruined orgasms?
It does happen, that your ruins feel really good. It might just be that’s how […]
Hello! ? Just a few questions for you. How does one ruin an orgasm? Can I do it to myself? Will I feel awful afterwards? ? thanks ✌
Stop all stimulation just as you go over the edge and don’t touch again until […]
So as I look more and more into denial I start to realise out of the hundreds of orgasms I’ve had in my life, maybe 6 or 7 of them haven’t been ruined orgasms. My lack of sexual education and my choice of first time partner led me to believe ruined was normal. I feel so lucky when I think about it though. And now, after being in self imposed denial for a while, even ruined orgasms disappoint. I wanna be denied and dripping forever ?
Well talk about putting a positive spin on it, well done you! You are lucky! […]
Hey James! Any tips for avoiding ruined orgasms? I have been trying to edge 4-5 times a day for 3 days now but I keep slipping up and getting a ruined orgasm once a day. I want to do better than this. Thnx! Also, I discovered your blog and this kink 3 days ago (:P) and I love how open, informative and fucking horny it is. My compliments! Going to use it even more when I start playing with a female sub again. ;)
You’re so welcome! open, informative and horny is what we aim for! So, a few […]
Submission: Lola discovers denial
So I wasn’t sure at first if I wanted to actually bother you with this […]
Anything special to go with a runied orgasm?
Two servings of regret and one of emotional torture? Plus a craving 20 minutes later […]
Hi James, does ruining my orgasms count if I keep touching even after I go over the edge for a little while but stop while I’m still orgasming, so it’s still technically ‘ruined’? Or does that count as an orgasm?
Ohhhhhhh, you’re getting onto dodgy territory there missy! A ruin, especially if you’re doing it […]