Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I just wanted to share a weird denial thing that happened to me tonight: I was edging by humping a pillow with a u-shaped dildo in my cunt (so, part of it was on my clit and the other part hit my g-spot). I was getting really close to the edge, so I slowed down the humping and just as I was about to stop I slipped over. I stopped immediately to ruin in but…..I seem to have managed to ruin my clitoral orgasm but still have a vaginal orgasm? I don’t even know if that’s possible.

With our amazing bodies, anything is possible! Sounds cool! For some women the two seem […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Sir, I was doing so well on no touch, only allowing myself to hump an ice pack (the numbing making it harder to come) but even so I had an accidental ruin. Is it normal to feel like you’ve literally “ruined” all your hard denial work when this happens? I’m the type of denial slut that doesn’t want to come, so even ruins feel like fuck-ups and kind of dampen my denial spirits. Any suggestions for ruins without the disappointment/guilt spiral? Or should I just skip them? Thank you, Sir! -B

Hey B, Firstly bonus points for innovation! Humping an ice pack, genius! (If anyone copies […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Sir, I’m addicted to my vibrator and nightly ruins. I know you’ve given advice on this before (I have read this blog top to bottom) but I have very little self-discipline. I always give in to using it, even though I’ve tried some of your suggestions, as I’m impatient and anything else seems to take forever. I burn through batteries, and edge with my vibrator on full blast and no shame…even having housemates. Any thoughts on how to control myself?

Start using rechargeable batteries (seriously) Set a timer, maybe five minutes, and start using the […]