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So I was scrolling through your blog. Thinking about starting denial but decided against it. Fast forward to me using my vibe to get myself off… as I was coming my thumb hit the power button! I have NEVER done that before mid orgasm. So I ruined it subconsciously I think. Thanks..
This is your subconscious right now: Beautiful
I tried the smacking trick you told that one person to try and I think it made me ruin by accident.
Oh yeah, it can do that too. Didn’t I mention that? Well really that means […]
Hi James, I just signed up for JuNo about 2 hours ago and I’m already having a tough time. I’m so used to just giving in to my needy pussy and orgasming whenever I want. Scrolling through your blog and others makes me so wet and horny I have trouble controlling myself. I start out just edging, not even getting that close and then suddenly it’s like I can’t stop myself. (Amanda 1/2)
I want to get to that constantly horny, drippy, can’t think of anything but cock, […]
I was just wondering, what exactly is ruining? I only just started getting into denying myself orgasms and I see ruining coming up a lot on blogs, etc. But not a lot of posts explain what the full meaning of it is. I was hoping you could help shed some light on it for me, thanks. By the way, your blog was the one that got me into denying, I’ve not had an orgasm for 2 weeks and I’ve never felt better.
Firstly, this is awesome. Well done! Two weeks is amazing! Secondly, the search and tag […]
hi! is it normal that i’ve never had a proper orgasm ever? it’s like every time i’m about to cum, i get so sensitive and i always pull my hand away from my cunt, before i can actually cum and therefore, i always end up ruining my orgasm. *sigh* i genuinely want to know how it feels to orgasm. any advice? -bonnie. | p.s. i usually do some edging before i let myself go. and thanks for being such an informative and helpful blog, james! cheers x
Hi Bonnie, Interesting one. Of course I’m super tempted to just say that’s perfect and […]
Hi James, I just ruined an orgasm for the first time. I built it up for about an hour before I went over the edge and I instantly stopped any stimulation. I’m very proud of myself, but I was wondering if it’s normal to feel pain? I felt a sharp pain that I can only describe as the feeling you get when you put pressure on a sprained ankle. If that’s normal then great, I’m a painslut anyway, but if it isn’t, what should I do? I don’t want to accidentally do damage when it isn’t necessary.
Hi Secrets! Well firstly good job on your first ruin, I’m proud of you too! […]
Ok, so basically whenever i edge il edge successfully several times, but seemingly randomly the same amount of pleasure that previously did not make me cum tips me over, i know i know “dont go so close to the edge” but the thing is im not really, like i said it seems to be random at what point i accidentally go over.
Don’t worry about it. Simple as that. The body is a remarkable and sometimes random […]
Hey James, I have seen your posts about trans women using chastity for their denial. But what if ruins are a huge fantasy for me? I love the idea of being denied for a very long time, but the thought of being ruined every day for that denial makes me squirm like crazy. I have actually done it for a few days, I think I got to five days before I couldn’t just ruin anymore. Was just wondering your thoughts on it, or if you have any suggestions for mixing chastity and ruins for us trans women.
I don’t think you need to be trans to do this, it’s valid for anyone […]
I masturbated on a cam thing with another woman for the first time today and I got myself to the edge… she denied me four times before she allowed me to cum and I squirted for the first time and omg I made a mess! I loved every second of it! I might even try it again tomorrow but please sir, will you let me cum again? Or do I have to let the other person know I’m a denial slut like you’ve taught us?
Well that’s one hell of a picture you’ve painted, wow, what a great experience, thank […]