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Tag: ruined orgasms
Hi James, I have a question about ruins, and since you are my biggest source when it comes to these subjects, I’ll try to ask you. I can’t make ruins work. When I ruin an orgasm it’s just as bad as one can expect, the problem however is that I don’t seem to be able to go back to that horny state, at all. Sometimes it takes me a day or two to get back even the smallest feeling of lust, and thats quite shitty. Do I ruin to often? Or are ruins just not my thing? I can’t be the only one can I?
Okay, well it may be, as you say, ruins just aren’t your thing. It’s worth […]
I wanted to ask about ruined orgasms. I wasn’t sure what made it different than edging. And then Saturday, when I was supposed to be edging, I slipped over. I froze and tried to pull back my orgasm, but it was too late. I get it now. The completely unsatisfying “release” (I don’t think it can really even be called release) was so not even worth the punishment, and certainly not worth starting over at day one of no orgasms. Thank you for your blog, it’s very educational (and arousing).
You’re so welcome, Belle. And that was just an accidental ruin. You can do them […]
I just wanted to thank you for running this blog. It helped me a lot with building self-acceptance, as well as broadening my sexual horizons. And, due to experimenting with denial (which I first encountered here) for a few weeks, today I’ve been able to have first vaginal orgasm in my life. I hope you will continue to bring me inspiration with every new post :) (sorry for my english, it’s not my native language)
That is fabulous, well done you!!! (English is great btw). You’re lucky you discovered vaginal […]
Good, great, just realized every orgasm I’ve ever had has been a ruin
We are all delighted for you. Keep up the good work!
I tried Cal’s Curse and about an hour later I masturbated. I was still able to cum but it stopped me from going over so easily. It ended in a ruin anyway because I get too sensitive when I come and I have to pull away EVERY time. Yayyy!!!!!!!
This is useful feedback, thank you! And the fact you have to ruin every time […]
Hiya! I was wondering how to ruin an orgasm? My orgasms come hard and fast and there’s no really way to tell its coming until it’s right there… Any tips??
An orgasm coming fast isn’t a problem if you want to ruin them. It really […]
Hello, I’m super into ruined orgasms, I actually like them a lot more than real orgasms. Do you have thoughts on this to help keep me from ever wanting a real one again?
I think it’s very hot! I personally love them, not only because they indulge my […]