Hi James, I am a 22yr old virgin who came across your account by mistake. After following and reading through it, i realised that every “orgasm” I’ve had whilst masturbating was actually a ruin. Wtf. I feel like my life is a lie. What do I do now? Where do I go from here? What would you have me do? On a side note, where in the UK are you from? Just so I can imagine your accent whilst reading the posts.

Well, the good news is at least you know now! I had a 60 year old woman write to me…

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Hi!!!! I was looking over your blog and decided to try out ruining my orgasm. I’d never done anything like it, so I tried a couple of times and just couldn’t get over the edge because I was actually frightened about what it would feel like. BUT OMG this is my new favourite thing and after I ‘finished’ I was still soaking? I woke up and had to change because I was still wet and I’ve been horny all day long because of it. Safe to say I’m converted and im a massive denial girl so I’m in love

Oh sweetie, aren’t ruins the best! I’m so glad you were brave and tried it out. Nothing’s ever going to…

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