Tag: ruined orgasms

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Dear James, I adore your blog and wanted to thank you for showing me a new way of submitting and feeling pleasure. As much as I love the idea of edging and denial I’ve struggled to actually do it. However when I got my period I decided to go on “no touch” until it finished. (normally I’d play anyway) it’s been 4 days and I’ve just touched my clit for the first time. It’s so sensitive and needy. I’m going to have a ruin right now. What should I do after that? E x

by jamesfod

Hi E,  Try for two more ruins… multiple ruined orgasms. You can do it! (But […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I had my first ruin today after 2 weeks of denial and teasing from my partner. My chance of cumming had been promised my him before this 2 weeks. I hate that I’m no longer on that denial high and the ruin made me so horny but not the nice “denial” horny. I want to cum hard so bad but not for another 2 weeks (who knows, he might give me another ruin which would be horrible to endure)

by jamesfod

Oh don’t worry, ruins are special things, they creep up on you and before you […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, I just recently discovered denial and decided to try it. I’m starting with just a few days but next week I’d like to try to go the whole week in denial, the only problem I’ve run into is when I slip up and start to cum, even if I stop touching as soon as I feel it start I don’t think I ruin. My pussy clenches on nothing and I make sure not even my thighs rub against my clit but I still feel satisfied when it’s over… what can I do?

by jamesfod

Hi Anon, So ruined orgasms are very variable things. It’s not that uncommon to have […]