Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I recently discovered your blog and I’ve been having a hard time just edging because I’ve never done it before, but I’ve been ruining like crazy. I’ve always had multiple orgasms and so I end up doing a couple in a row. Is it normal to be way more sensitive afterwards (to the point where I can’t even get close to the PNR)? With full orgasms I don’t get near as sensitive for as long. I’m not sure if I’m doing the ruins right

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Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’m wondering if ‘over-edging’ (like, >50 in a row) can possibly lead to a subdrop, kind of situation within the next 24 hours or so? I was allowed to edge as much as I wanted yesterday and basically edged my brains away before I slept, but I ended up with a horribly restless night, a pounding headache in the morning, and kind of just feeling off and down for the rest of the morning. I can’t seem to find much literature online about this though, so I thought the denial guru could help!

Yes, doing it that much can definitely have an emotional effect (as well as wear […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! Frustrated denial bitch here. That female orgasm compilation video was so exquisitely cruel of you to post. I put toothpaste on my clit a few minutes before watching, letting the burn make me so painfully sensitive. Then, using my vibe, I edged and edged, watching the video several times over. Finally when I couldn’t stand it a moment longer, I hit an amazing peak, a single stroke, a held breath, a tightened muscle away from an incredible orgasm. I tipped over into bliss… (1)

And for the first time ever, pulled my hand away. A beautifully orchestrated climax, relief […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

James, I am so fucking mad at myself. I edged 3 times a day for 3 days (the first time I tried this I ended up having like 5 full orgasms on day 2) and today was my cum day. What do I do ..? Hesitate and ruin it at the last second by accident like a dumb bitch. -_- I got back up to an edge afterward but basically had to rub my clit raw. I don’t even know if I’m looking for punishment by sending this or if this is the kind of anon you want, but I HAD to tell someone. Thanks for being here.

Sweetie, sweetie. You didn’t ruin it ‘by accident’. Stop getting mad. Your mind knows what you […]