Hello When I first started masturbating, I always used a vibe and for the longest time I didn’t feel the need to change that. Today I still much prefer a vibe to my hands. The problem is, I love to edge. But I tried ruining at the start of the year. And you know what? You’re 100% right. They’re addicting. Most of the time, when I try to edge, I end up ruining. I know I should stop using my vibe, that’d help, but it just feels so good to ruin. I just wanted to share this with you.

If you love ruins that’s okay, in fact it’s great. But make it feel like you’ve earned it. Let ruins become your new orgasms, few and far between and all the better for it.

So try these rules, hands only for the first two edges in a day, only your third or later gets the vibe.

Five days of that, without going over gets you a ruin.

Or, give up three ruins, so 15 days without going over and edging each day, and you can cum.

Let us know how you get on!

James

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