Archive for : September, 2019

Hello When I first started masturbating, I always used a vibe and for the longest time I didn’t feel the need to change that. Today I still much prefer a vibe to my hands. The problem is, I love to edge. But I tried ruining at the start of the year. And you know what? You’re 100% right. They’re addicting. Most of the time, when I try to edge, I end up ruining. I know I should stop using my vibe, that’d help, but it just feels so good to ruin. I just wanted to share this with you.

If you love ruins that’s okay, in fact it’s great. But make it feel like you’ve earned it. Let ruins become your new orgasms, few and far between and all the better for it.

So try these rules, hands only for the first two edges in a day, only your third or later gets the vibe.

Five days of that, without going over gets you a ruin.

Or, give up three ruins, so 15 days without going over and edging each day, and you can cum.

Let us know how you get on!


Does your current status on Tumblr make it so that people can’t do a tag search? I click on all of the hashtags that it says you post a lot about, and the search brings up nothing. Do you know about this, and is there a way around it?

It does exactly that sadly. The only thing I can do about it is get unflagged, which I’m trying to do, but there are thousands of posts to work through and every time I think I’ve got them all, Tumblr tells me there are more.

But I’m back and working on it now!

This is absolutely magnificent work by @ayerslix Just wow. I posted something from her just now which was lovely, but this is a masterclass. Her excellent explanation of the joys of edging, while she edges, while she descends into edgespace.

Listen, and follow. Let’s hope she makes some more.




Good girls don’t think, good girls obey, good girls rub their minds away. 

I have one of those clit suction vibrators. To record this I had it set on low and gradually increased the intensity every time I edged. I didn’t count how many edges it was but at the end I edge hard.

I spend most of the first three minutes slowly dropping. Also, without realising, I switch the mantra slightly four times in a row towards the beginning then switch back.

I go through many different flavours of horny: vacant, desperate, needy, slutty, animalistic. It’s a real variety pack.

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JK Rowling // “Fat’ is usually the first insult a girl throws at another girl when she wants to hurt her.⁣

⁣I mean, is ‘fat’ really the worst thing a human being can be? Is ‘fat’ worse than ‘vindictive’, ‘jealous’, ‘shallow’, ‘vain’, ‘boring’ or ‘cruel’? Not to me; but then, you might retort, what do I know about the pressure to be skinny? I’m not in the business of being judged on my looks, what with being a writer and earning my living by using my brain…⁣

⁣I went to the British Book Awards that evening. After the award ceremony I bumped into a woman I hadn’t seen for nearly three years. The first thing she said to me? ‘You’ve lost a lot of weight since the last time I saw you!’⁣

⁣‘Well,’ I said, slightly nonplussed, ‘the last time you saw me I’d just had a baby.’⁣

⁣What I felt like saying was, ‘I’ve produced my third child and my sixth novel since I last saw you. Aren’t either of those things more important, more interesting, than my size?’ But no – my waist looked smaller! Forget the kid and the book: finally, something to celebrate!⁣

⁣I’ve got two daughters who will have to make their way in this skinny-obsessed world, and it worries me, because I don’t want them to be empty-headed, self-obsessed, emaciated clones; I’d rather they were independent, interesting, idealistic, kind, opinionated, original, funny – a thousand things, before ‘thin’. And frankly, I’d rather they didn’t give a gust of stinking chihuahua flatulence whether the woman standing next to them has fleshier knees than they do. Let my girls be Hermiones, rather than Pansy Parkinsons."⁣