Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James! So I have a really weird question. I’m really into the idea of denial and usually edge myself, but I want to try it with my boyfriend. The problem is I can’t orgasm. I can do it myself, but I’ve never been able to during activities with someone else. I’ve been faking it forever. So, my question is, is it even denial if I don’t/can’t orgasm anyway? Because, I feel like I could never have the full experience :/

Hi anon, You’ve got a few options here. If you can cum by yourself but […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, I was wondering if you accept anon photo submissions either here or on your BDSMLR acct? (Is that possible?) As part of my denial, I’ve been exploring clothing as a way of getting into the submissive mindset. I dress pretty modestly in public, but the thought of wearing something really revealing and having my body on display is a huge turn on for me. I took a pic the other night while wearing some of my newest outfit purchases and would love to share with you and your followers. -😇

Absolutely. As long as I’m convinced it’s genuine and from you, always happy to indulge […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, Idk if you can answer this question but lately when I’m edging the only way for me to stop myself going over is to squirt a little bit (or sometimes a lot). It’s like I have to release the pressure somehow. I’m mostly fine with it but I am a little concerned that I have so little control over it. Do you or your followers have any tips on how to not squirt if you don’t want to? Thanks and have a great day!

That’s a new one on me but I can see the logic of it. There […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, over a year ago I remember reading an ask from a girl who wanted to be more “dirty” (or something like that) while being single. Amongst your suggestions was that while she’s in the shower she should use thick white body washes to replicate cum. A year later, I’m still doing this and I still feel dirty. So this is just an appreciation message ;)

OMG this is so great. I’d totally forgotten that advice! Thank you! I mean, if […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

i follow you both here and on bdsmble but fot that website is so hard to use. search option is full of things spam tagged that arent actually what your looking for, so your still the only good denial blog ive been able to follow there! hows a horny denial slut supposed to get daily tasks and be told how their allowed to touch when everythings just spam porn there and blocked here! hah! love ya as always, -sav

Hi Sav, Yes, I know. BDSMLR is getting better but it’s slow and tagging’s not […]