JuNO – what’s a little ruin between friends?
Well what an encouraging response! Despite Tumblr’s best efforts it seems there are many still eager to participate, thanks everyone
I’m so proud of you all!
The first few days are often the hardest so today this is just a reminder to not push yourself too far. We aren’t trying to set records in how close and long you can stay at the edge of an orgasm. If anything, stay safe, don’t get too close, and just try to explore how edging without cumming at the end makes you feel.
What should be occuring over the next few days is those endorphins and other feel-good chemicals slowly start to drift around your system all the time. Without an orgasm releasing Prolactin (the chemical that settles you down after cumming) you will start to feel an ongoing ‘buzz’ – the ‘Denial High’ (sounds like a hot school…).
Don’t be thinking about the 30 days though, just think about today. We’re going to do this one day at a time. ‘I will not cum today. Good girls don’t cum’ can be your mantra. One day at a time, one edge at a time.
Don’t forget this is about having fun, so just relax, lay back and enjoy edging. There are hundreds of other denial sluts (and if you even start this you totally are a denial slut) doing this with you. So be strong, hold back.
Cumming is good, but not cumming is better. But a ruin is a good compromise!
But as we discussed, if you do go over you’re to ruin the orgasm. Some of you are more than familiar with these diabolical little things. It’s where you start to go over into an orgasm but stop any stimulation as soon as you do and never get the pleasure you’d expect.
If you’ve made it three days without cumming then a huge congratulations. That’s so great!
You’re going to be allowed an orgasm!
A ruined orgasm.
Oh but if you’ve already gone over and HAD a ruined orgasm during JuNO, well sorry, that’s yours used up already. You just get to know that lots of others are having their ruiins.
Here is everything you need to learn about ruined orgasms:
Sadly on bdsmlr as tumblr broke all my tags (sad face)
70 posts. You must review them while edging before you can go back to those first ones and actually ruin an orgasm according to the instructions.
It’s optional though, if you want to just stay with edging, that’s great too.
Let us know how your ruins go, they vary so much, it’ll be fascinating for us all. How did it feel, how hard was it, how did it make YOU feel, physically and emotionally, and how did it effect your arousal over time?
Let us know how you get on!
Enjoy the ruin!