I wanted to ask about ruined orgasms. I wasn’t sure what made it different than edging. And then Saturday, when I was supposed to be edging, I slipped over. I froze and tried to pull back my orgasm, but it was too late. I get it now. The completely unsatisfying “release” (I don’t think it can really even be called release) was so not even worth the punishment, and certainly not worth starting over at day one of no orgasms. Thank you for your blog, it’s very educational (and arousing).