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Hi James, I have a question about ruins, and since you are my biggest source when it comes to these subjects, I’ll try to ask you. I can’t make ruins work. When I ruin an orgasm it’s just as bad as one can expect, the problem however is that I don’t seem to be able to go back to that horny state, at all. Sometimes it takes me a day or two to get back even the smallest feeling of lust, and thats quite shitty. Do I ruin to often? Or are ruins just not my thing? I can’t be the only one can I?

by jamesfod

Okay, well it may be, as you say, ruins just aren’t your thing. It’s worth trying it after a few days denial vs recently having cum and see if that makes a difference.

Also try forcing yourself to masturbate for five minutes after your ruin, it may just reset things enough for the horniness to kick back in.

But otherwise, you’ll just have to work hard to only edge and not go over… because we don’t want orgasms ruining everything, do we 😉

Merry Christmas

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