Ok, so basically whenever i edge il edge successfully several times, but seemingly randomly the same amount of pleasure that previously did not make me cum tips me over, i know i know “dont go so close to the edge” but the thing is im not really, like i said it seems to be random at what point i accidentally go over.

Don’t worry about it.

Simple as that. The body is a remarkable and sometimes random thing.

Maybe you’ll get better at it, but sounds like you’re doing fine. If you ruin it when you go over then that’s even better and you’re seriously getting into it.

Your alternative is get some good hard edges in to really get you horny and then put yourself on ‘soft edges’ only for a while and see how that works for you.