I’ve read most of what you’ve written about ruined orgasms but I think I might be different… or something. What you describe as “how to ruin an orgasm” is something I’ve done quite a lot, and honestly, it feels just as good as any orgasm I’ve ever had. I don’t get a crash or that amplified need feeling. And anyway, even if I don’t deliberately stop all stimulation, I’m immediately too sensitive to keep going anyway. Have you encountered this before? Or have ALL my orgasms been ruined orgasms?

It does happen, that your ruins feel really good. It might just be that’s how you’re wired but what I’ve found breaks through (are we seriously talking about how to ruin an orgasm if we can’t, that’s so funny) it occasionally is ruin it from penetration, get yourself to the edge fucking a dildo and use that to take you over and pull it out as soon as you do.

Use clit stimulation to get you there, sure, but try to see if you can just go over that final edge with the fucking alone.

Also, if you can’t cum from just fucking, this is an evil task to have to do, forever teetering on the edge unable to go over.

Just saying.

Hmm, I think we might add that to the Orgasm Denial Lexicon

Teetering – to hold an extended edge