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hi james, lucy again. thanks for your advice. i really appreciate it! i didn’t touch at all yesterday because of my mood, but i did end up spinning the punishment wheel today. i got pegs on my nipples + clit for 20 min. i must be a bit of a pain slut… i got wet almost immediately. i ended up teasing my clit w/ a light finger while the pegs were still on. gonna try and find little ways to keep my arousal up w/o overdoing it like last time. the pegs were a great start. ❤️ -lucy
Hi Lucy, I’m glad it was helpful. My experience is we’re all something of a […]
With the comment about balm I wanted to share one of my favourites. You need a small jar (like an empty spice jar) and fill it with lube up to three quarters full. Put in a couple of drops of tobasco sauce- literally only a couple!- the stuff which is just chillis and vinegar. Shake it up and test it- two drops is pretty mild. Then add more as you need to. I have about twenty drops in a tiny jar of lube and I love it, and you choose how strong to make it! (I might add more now actually…)
Oh that really is a homebrew! Some will find chilli more likely to react to […]
Just thought you should know, your blog is flagged again
Yeah I know, I’ve asked for it to be reviewed, we’ll see .
Hi! I just tried the lovehoney bliss balm and I’ll be honest, I was a little disappointed. After hearing all the gals on your blog talking about tiger balm and toothpaste, I thought “that sounds fun, but maybe I should ease my way in”. Well the bliss balm just didn’t do much for me. Is there anything you could suggest that would be a step between an orgasm balm and something like tiger balm? Thanks!
It’s a nice product but yes, it’s very mild. A better option for you would […]
James, i had the best orgasm of my life last week when i used a vibrator on my clit instead of just using my fingers! All this time i thought i had been cumming and i was really just getting to the edge and stopping! Now that ive achieved this orgasm should i carry on Cumming should i go back to being a good girl and edging? ~emily
Oh Emily, that’s a tricky one. Down one path we have the world where you […]
do you know of any edging discord servers???
Hmm, it’s hard for computers to edge but I did find this… I don’t think […]
hi james. i had been denying myself since dec 26th with the intention of going for a few weeks. last night, i was edging to porn and ended up finding a vid that aroused me too much that i lost control and ended up cumming. since then, i’ve felt pretty depressed and disappointed with myself. ? do you have any tips for overcoming this feeling? thanks. -lucy
Feeling like this is natural when we fail at anything. and with the heightened emotions […]
Something I discovered tonight: wearing a chastity belt and rubbing in slow circles against the metal right where my clit is trapped beneath makes me so wet. My brain and body wants to feel the stimulation, but instead I just feel nothing.
Oh wow, it’s like ‘phantom clit syndrome’ I love that! I had a couple recently where […]
while edging tonight, i ended up discovering an effective way of torturing myself. i teased my clit for about an hr. then once i was dripping wet, i fucked myself for 15 min without clit stimulation. i can’t cum from penetration alone and my clit was throbbing, aching to be touched. it was such a mindfuck and i wanted to cum so bad. after the 15 min was up, i removed the dildo and put myself on no touch until tomorrow. currently squirming in bed, contemplating humping until i fall asleep. ?
This is beautiful, good girl! Now do the same tomorrow, and Saturday, and maybe I’ll […]