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Can we just appreciate how beautiful and sexy your answer about ruined orgasms is? Like wtf, my love for ruins just got ten times bigger (and I already loved them). If I just had someone to ruin my orgasms for me.. Thanks for existing.
You’re so welcome, thank you! Always great to hear lovely feedback.
I have a fantasy I want to share with you and your followers James! I don’t know why but I just want to tell someone about it. I’m a lesbian, and I practice self denial, but I have a crazy fantasy of a straight girl. Any girl, but a straight girl who controls me and my orgasms. Maybe she has a boyfriend, or different partners, but the thought of her denying me and using me for her pleasure is just so hot, especially when I know she’s straight and not attracted to me. Just thought I’d share :)
I adore that! Damn I love it when you guys share your fantasies like this. […]
How can I best communicate to my LD Dom that I actually love denial. Of course I want to cum, and not having an orgasm is torture, but it makes me wild when he says no. It makes me feel alive with constant sexual desire, it makes me fem like I would do “anything” to earn that orgasm. Do Doms want their subs to enjoy denial, to admit enjoying being at their master’s mercy? What’s the best way to say it?
I tend to advocate the ‘cumming is good, but not cumming is so much better’ approach […]
I just ruined my orgasm ? ive never been so unsatisfied. But it was well worth it! My clit is throbbing w pleasure !
Good work, what a great letter to start my replies to (OMG MY INBOX!). All […]
Could you or your followers explain ruined orgasms? My partner and I are beginning to get into denial and I’d like her to try ruining her orgasm for me, but neither of us is too sure how that works. Does she need to just stop once she feels herself beginning to cum or is there something else to it?
Hi anon, That’s the basic principle, yes. A ruined orgasm is one where you take […]
I’m the anon who ruined for the first time… I suck at holding off so now any time I push too far I make myself ruin. It’s an interesting journey… so squirmy all the time now ?
Squirmy huh, ruined anon, we like squirmy here. I recommend it wearing a tight pair […]
Hi! A few hours ago I checked out your bdsmlr page, and it worked, apart from the fact that it asked whether I was already 18 and i had to click “Okay” not “Yes” (which would have made more sense grammatically, I guess, so I wonder if this was already sketchy). Now your link doesn’t work anymore and it says such a site does not exist. Do you know what’s causing this? Potentially a virus? Greetings, Liz
Hey Liz, Seems to be working okay for me, although I must concur with your […]
Just had my first intentional ruin… it’s a love hate relationship
Good girl. May it always be so! Oh and they’re weirdly addictive. Should’ve said <3
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I do hear good things about them but fuck me, who picked that god-awful name! […]