James, i had the best orgasm of my life last week when i used a vibrator on my clit instead of just using my fingers! All this time i thought i had been cumming and i was really just getting to the edge and stopping! Now that ive achieved this orgasm should i carry on Cumming should i go back to being a good girl and edging? ~emily

Oh Emily, that’s a tricky one. 

Down one path we have the world where you cum your fucking brains out for weeks trying to make up for all the denial you’ve inadvertently put yourself through since you first even touched yourself.

But on the other side is the twisted dark path where you’ve cum once, so you know how good it is, and you decide to edge your brains out, in full knowledge of what you’re missing. You might even stop using the vibe, just to make sure you’re a good girl…

Which way, Emily, which way?