Hi! I just tried the lovehoney bliss balm and I’ll be honest, I was a little disappointed. After hearing all the gals on your blog talking about tiger balm and toothpaste, I thought “that sounds fun, but maybe I should ease my way in”. Well the bliss balm just didn’t do much for me. Is there anything you could suggest that would be a step between an orgasm balm and something like tiger balm? Thanks!

It’s a nice product but yes, it’s very mild.

A better option for you would be either tiger balm or something more cream like, Deep Heat here in the UK is good, and to MIX it with lotion, in varying proportions.

Start with something like 8:1 lotion to menthol, try that on you, and if you want more you can up the ratio until you find what works for you. Move down to a quarter, even a half, and then you might find you want it barely diluted at all, but go slowly and have fun with it.