Hi anon, You’ve got a few options here. If you can cum by yourself but […]
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hi James, quick question. do you think aiming for a month is too much for my first time edging? should i cut it down to a week? also, im edging myself, any tips on how to get myself to stop just on the edge? I’ve tried edging a few times but always mess up and allow mysterious an orgasm. thanks!
Yeah, it’s a bit overambitious. The trouble is you’re setting yourself up for failure whereas […]
do you have any tips to help with self-control? i usually can’t edge more than 3 or 4 times before i accidentally push myself over and it ruins the whole experience because i just feel disappointed in myself
Stop at three. Seriously. Three edges and you’re done. No more touching for at least […]
Hi! So this isn’t really related to denial but… I thought you may be a good person to ask. I’ve been seeing this girl (I too am a girl) and things are getting to the point where sex is a possibility and I want to make it good for her if it happens because I’ve never been with a girl before. Any tips?
HI Anon, thanks for asking this, it’s an honour to be asked. You have two […]
Only answer if anon 🌸 I’ve been having so many fantasies about me and my best friend helping each other reach a g spot orgasm. I want to get drunk with her, and finger the shit out of her til she squirts. She’s a virgin, and has never had a boyfriend, straight, but she’s messed with a girl once. I guess I’m just asking if you think it would be a good idea? Or how could I bring it up? I don’t want a romantic relationship, she’s my best friend and I’m so comfortable with her💕 tia
It can work, but the way you’re suggesting is a bad idea. Do not get […]
how can i find a master to control me? i want him/her to tell me how many times to edge myself, when i can cum, when i can ruin, etc. i just want someone to be in complete control of my orgasms but idk how to find someone. please help me james.
Hi sweetie, Sadly the answer is, very, very carefully. There are a hoard of complete […]
hey! I’m in a long distance relationship and I’m going to be seeing my boyfriend in a month. I’d really like to try not to cum until I’m with him but I’ve never really done denial before- more like entertained the idea of it. Do you have any tips or help? Thanks James! Your blog is the reason I’ve even thought of this
This is a really hot idea. But a month might be a bit ambitious if […]
denial-doll: denial-doll: i honestly think stopping an edge is more pleasurable than the edge itself. […]
Hi James. I’d like to start by saying that I enjoy how fun yet informative your blog is. Thank you for that. I’ll get right to it. A few months ago, my friend died. This friend happened to be someone I would go to when I felt horny and in need of someone to dominate me. I often think of her when I masturbate. It makes me feel so sad and honestly, what was once a turn on is now a turn off. Can you offer any advice on how to get over this so I can get off?
I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. This isn’t a huge surprise because the […]
I am so glad you found your asks. I thought mine was lost in cyber space. Based on your description I’m certain I’m getting a hard edge and not a ruin. I was concerned because I have given my Dom control of my orgasms (gladly) and while I knew it wasn’t a full orgasm, I couldn’t properly describe what I was feeling. Since we are LDR he couldn’t really help me figure it out. I have been very good at keeping a soft edge, but now I know the difference I can try for hard edges again!
Thank you. It wasn’t that I didn’t get the messages it’s just it didn’t show […]