He’s saying that because it’s all he knows. Just try talking to him. Start it with something exciting when you’re lying in bed together, being sexy already:
“So umm, I have this secret kinky thing I’m into that I haven’t told you about yet”
You have his 100% attention right there
‘I was a bit scared to tell you as I know how much you love making me cum, but… have you ever heard of orgasm denial?’
Then just go on to explain to him how much the idea of NOT being allowed to cum turns you on. If he responds really positively, show him this blog!
Just because you cumming gets him hard doesn’t mean NOT letting you cum won’t get him even harder, trust me. It’s amazing.
Just be careful what you wish for 😉