Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Only answer if anon 🌸 I’ve been having so many fantasies about me and my best friend helping each other reach a g spot orgasm. I want to get drunk with her, and finger the shit out of her til she squirts. She’s a virgin, and has never had a boyfriend, straight, but she’s messed with a girl once. I guess I’m just asking if you think it would be a good idea? Or how could I bring it up? I don’t want a romantic relationship, she’s my best friend and I’m so comfortable with her💕 tia

It can work, but the way you’re suggesting is a bad idea. Do not get […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James! So your blog has brought a new kink to light in my life. I’ve been trying to find a way to tell my husband, also named James, that I want to experiment with denial, but the letter you have written aren’t quite right for me. Also, last night we had sex and he’s been pulling out lately because I’m trying not to get pregnant and I don’t trust my BC, so when he came he pulled out, but I was right on the edge and its been driving me crazy allllll day! Sincerely dripping, Nat

Hey Nat, So, you’ve kind of supplied your own answer here. ‘James honey, I need […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

James I wanted to say thank you. That vibe you recommended is the perfect gift. I just bought one for all my besties for Christmas. Some will think it’s a joke I bet but hopefully most will appreciate it. As you say I hope it offers the chance to talk more about sex. It drives me crazy how it’s such a taboo subject still when I just want to help them because they’re my friends! Also I think it’s brilliant you’d think of buying your daughter a vibe. I wish all parents were like that.

Thank you! Seriously, I loved it, I hadn’t seen it before but it was just […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi! So I absolutely love your blog, and so far I’ve managed a full week of denial. I’m pretty submissive and I’ve always been interested in bondage, but I’ve never had a partner who wasn’t weirded out by the idea (I usually casually bring it up a few months into new relationships just to test the waters). So I wanted to know if you’d be willing to make some posts about self-bondage? I can do quite a few things by myself when it comes to bondage but I would love to see what you can come up with.

How interesting. I get that partners often struggle to understand why not cumming is better, […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James. I have a feeling you’re going to take great joy in what I’m about to tell you. So in the past, after long nights of playing and begging to cum, my dom has told me “no, that’s enough. time for bed.” I hated it…I loved it. But as of late, he has been letting me every time I ask, and I can’t help but feel a little disappointed when he says yes. I’m always desperately hoping he will say no.

I’ve written something, just for you: https://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/post/160445894488/i-have-something-to-ask-you

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

So this morning while having a little play time I decided to do JuNO~ I’m actually kinda excited because I want to learn how to have more self restraint on cumming. My Daddy is a sweet one and let’s me normally cum if I beg once or twice. He’s not very strict which is kinda making me a spoiled brat in a way. ^^; But I told him this morning that I’m going to start this! He thinks it’ll be tough but I think I got this. I hope I do at least because want to feel the way all these lovely ladies are!

This is great, welcome to the party. Let me suggest you really make it clear […]