So I left Tumblr open on my iPad yesterday my boyfriend had a nosey and cut a long story short we are now doing Denial December. First time we’ve done anything like this and I’m so excited/nervous, I’ve been crazy horny all bloody day and he’s loving it

Did you do this on purpose though, that’s what we all want to know! But well done, subconciously all not,…

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Hi James, I just recently got brave enough to share with my partner that I’m into orgasm denial. I’m currently on day 5 of a 10-day denial period we agreed on, and I’ve been edging all day, but I just had an accidental ruin. What do I do? Does this mean I need to start over?

Nah, relax! Just tell them, and maybe suggest it might need a ‘funishment’, I’d suggest a bit of a spanking mixed…

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hello and happy friday! a quick question for you, my bf and i are going to try orgasm control and denial for the first time this weekend. he has some concerns (since he is new to kink) about how he should respond during sexy times when i ask for permission to cum. do you have any suggestions or key phrases that you use?

‘No’ Yeah that about sums it up 🙂 Okay but really, this is where safewords come in really handy. Discuss…

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hi James, i denied my boyfriend from coming this past sunday knowing full well i wasn’t going to see him until thanksgiving. since then we’ve decided (him not knowing about denial/edging/etc.) that neither of us is going to come until the wednesday before thanksgiving (the next time we’ll see each other) and having never denied myself, let alone someone else for this long is exciting to me. i’m also god awful at edging so chances are i will be avoiding touching myself all together…. ~elise

Hi Elise, That’s awesome, dual denial is so much fun! If he hasn’t done it before, he’ll find it even…

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Told a guy I’ve been sexting with that I’m into denial and pointed him towards your blog to convince him that it’s even hotter than making me cum, so here’s hoping he helps me on my way to being complete denial slut ;)

Good girl. Just know you’re completely fucked if he reads this: https://edging.space/post/157240617903/the-greatest-valentines-gift Or actually, this… https://edging.space/post/160445894488/i-have-something-to-ask-you And whatever you do,…

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Hi James, My boyfriend and I were on my bed, and I opened my tumblr and by accident my search history was open and he saw your blog name pop up. He asked, “Oh, so is that what you’re into?” And then had me scroll through your posts while he touched me, and denied me the whole time, until I was a dripping mess and finally then did he let me cum. Now, it’s something he regularly does whenever we have sex, slowly easing us into it. But I’m so fucked. Thanks for your lovely blog James! -Ellie 💛

Now get him to read this if you haven’t: https://edging.space/post/157240617903/the-greatest-valentines-gift Then you’ll really know the meaning of being so fucked…

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Hi James, just wanted to ask if you had another edging therapist post planned? Love the couples posts. About to have my guy join this journey. Tonight he is wearing the love bracelets, (our handcuffs) and going into chastity :) XO Alex

Oh I’d forgotten about that, that was hot wasn’t it! https://edging.space/post/169554329163/the-edging-therapist-session-1 Thank you for the reminder, I shall add it…

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