Hi anon, You’ve got a few options here. If you can cum by yourself but […]
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Hey James! So your blog has brought a new kink to light in my life. I’ve been trying to find a way to tell my husband, also named James, that I want to experiment with denial, but the letter you have written aren’t quite right for me. Also, last night we had sex and he’s been pulling out lately because I’m trying not to get pregnant and I don’t trust my BC, so when he came he pulled out, but I was right on the edge and its been driving me crazy allllll day! Sincerely dripping, Nat
Hey Nat, So, you’ve kind of supplied your own answer here. ‘James honey, I need […]
Hello, James. I have a dilemma. My current partner is a submissive boy with slight aggressive tendencies. Most subbie boys enjoy pleasing their lady. It’s what gets them off. And I rather enjoy orgasm denial once in a while. I figure we’d deny each other. I just don’t know how to breech the topic to him?? Since his pleasure is the utmost importance to me. But I think this could be good for us. I’ve been a switch for awhile now but being the dominant partner is still new to me. -Hazel
Step 1 – Lock his cock up in one of these: Step 2 – Profit […]
hey! I’m in a long distance relationship and I’m going to be seeing my boyfriend in a month. I’d really like to try not to cum until I’m with him but I’ve never really done denial before- more like entertained the idea of it. Do you have any tips or help? Thanks James! Your blog is the reason I’ve even thought of this
This is a really hot idea. But a month might be a bit ambitious if […]
I’m trying to tease a boy who hasn’t cum in 9 days. I can have him touch and tease himself however I want for another 6 days and then I’m going to tease him in person. Wanted some advice on how to drive him crazy, since he’s hard to edge in person. If I can get him to beg to cum I win a stuffie, so any help is appreciated
Well anon, as we know from fairgrounds people will do all kinds of things for […]
Hi James! I’m not sure if you’re still answering messages sent on tumblr, but here goes nothing. I’m 19 years old, and just started having sex. The first guy was super vanilla (which I respected but it really put me off). Now, I found a guy who is really into BDSM and seems to have a daddy kink as well. He asked me what my kinks were, and won’t do anything too crazy before I tell him. I think that’s a good thing but now I’m faced with a major problem… (1/2)
I’m just too shy. I have a rough idea of what I like but I […]
hey james my boyfriend is a dom but he’s new to it and inexperienced, like i literally had to tell him what aftercare is. but he really wants to learn more about everything and i want to teach him but i don’t really know where to start. any advice or anything would really be appreciated !
Hey there, I’m more than happy for him to email me at james@edging.space if he […]
He liked to check her before they went out for dinner. Sometimes if she was […]
How do you think denial in your relationship affects you and your wife? I kinda think the control over somebody’s orgasms makes the two people both kind of more connected in a way
More than ‘in a way’ it’s a huge boost. Although we didn’t really have a name […]
Hi James I wanted to know if you could help me out I’m trying to do Denial from now till my birthday Jan 6. I’ll get to spend a whole weekend with my Daddy and I want to be as needy as possible but I want it to be a suprise. Any ideas of how I could do this? I’d appreciate the help ?? you’re the best BTW love your blog and everything you do to help with this
Thanks anon! Lovely to hear that. If you’re new to denial that’s a bloody long […]