Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James! So I have a really weird question. I’m really into the idea of denial and usually edge myself, but I want to try it with my boyfriend. The problem is I can’t orgasm. I can do it myself, but I’ve never been able to during activities with someone else. I’ve been faking it forever. So, my question is, is it even denial if I don’t/can’t orgasm anyway? Because, I feel like I could never have the full experience :/

Hi anon, You’ve got a few options here. If you can cum by yourself but […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James! So your blog has brought a new kink to light in my life. I’ve been trying to find a way to tell my husband, also named James, that I want to experiment with denial, but the letter you have written aren’t quite right for me. Also, last night we had sex and he’s been pulling out lately because I’m trying not to get pregnant and I don’t trust my BC, so when he came he pulled out, but I was right on the edge and its been driving me crazy allllll day! Sincerely dripping, Nat

Hey Nat, So, you’ve kind of supplied your own answer here. ‘James honey, I need […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hello, James. I have a dilemma. My current partner is a submissive boy with slight aggressive tendencies. Most subbie boys enjoy pleasing their lady. It’s what gets them off. And I rather enjoy orgasm denial once in a while. I figure we’d deny each other. I just don’t know how to breech the topic to him?? Since his pleasure is the utmost importance to me. But I think this could be good for us. I’ve been a switch for awhile now but being the dominant partner is still new to me. -Hazel

Step 1 – Lock his cock up in one of these: Step 2 – Profit […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’m not sure if you’re still answering messages sent on tumblr, but here goes nothing. I’m 19 years old, and just started having sex. The first guy was super vanilla (which I respected but it really put me off). Now, I found a guy who is really into BDSM and seems to have a daddy kink as well. He asked me what my kinks were, and won’t do anything too crazy before I tell him. I think that’s a good thing but now I’m faced with a major problem… (1/2)

I’m just too shy. I have a rough idea of what I like but I […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James I wanted to know if you could help me out I’m trying to do Denial from now till my birthday Jan 6. I’ll get to spend a whole weekend with my Daddy and I want to be as needy as possible but I want it to be a suprise. Any ideas of how I could do this? I’d appreciate the help 😊💖 you’re the best BTW love your blog and everything you do to help with this

Thanks anon! Lovely to hear that. If you’re new to denial that’s a bloody long […]