Well, of course given this is an orgasm denial blog, I could just say, this is perfect, keep it just as it is. Having a way to just edge yourself crazy without the risk of going over is super hot and useful.
Women I teach to orgasm from penetration (and yes I do that, we love orgasms here, we just love not having them even more) they regularly later express they wish they hadn’t learnt!
For g-spot/vaginal orgasms a lot is about technique and the right tools. So make sure you’re using a good dildo with a curve on it, like the one I recommend on my toys page. Or a vibrator that really hits the spot – there are many designed to get to your g-spot.
The stats are generally about 30% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. Now I’m firmly of the belief that’s because most women are just expecting it to happen by magic, letting Mr Wondercock do it all. Like anything, some training and practise can make a huge difference.
In my own experience 70-80% of women can cum from penetration alone if they work at it.
The orgasm fundamentals apply, that is, the two rules of ‘pressure’ – that you want to create sexual pressure in your body, through tensing and breathing technique, while you let go of pressure with your mind, don’t over think, focus on what turns you on.
Have a look at my posts or edging technique and basically do the opposite!
http://edging.space/tagged/edging-technique
Add to that good fucking technique, getting in a good position, using a toy that can actually get to your g-spot (or deeper if you’re very aroused by deep penetration, many are).
And finally, for many the thing that holds them back is when you get it right you feel a need to pee. This is NOT you wanting to pee. This is you building up ejaculate. Read more here http://edging.space/post/124361004088/how-can-you-make-yourself-squirt-and-how-can-my
So, right toys, right technique, and some practise and you’ll get there.
The question is do you really want to?
James