Humping is for everyone…
Month: January 2019
Hi James I tried the wheel of punishment today and I had to write my darkest fantasy. Mine is to be publicly humiliated by my partner(s) and he(she, they) make strangers masturbate me in public while I am denied orgasm while I wear no panties but also wearing the most smallest, tightest and slutiest outfit that leaves nothing to imagination. Hope it’s a got one.
Damn, yes it’s a hot one! Just imagine, thousands masturbating to your fantasy right now. […]
Dear James – I was edging all the time and loving how it made me feel… until I finally let myself cum and afterwards felt like I’d lost all willingness to edge. It’s hard to get back in the right mindset. So, I’m taking some inspo from your Wheel of Denial for the new year. I made my own list of things I know arouse me like crazy. Edging while gagged, watching porn on no touch, etc. They’re in a random numbered list and I spin for a # each day. I’m both excited and scared… wish me luck! -S.
That’s so great, we want to hear the whole list!!!! You can simply go to […]
Hey James. I am very shy when it comes to talking about my own fantasies, but about 2 weeks ago I saw you linked to ‘the greatest valentines gift ever’ on your blog. I gathered up the courage and sent the link to my gf and then I hid under the bed. Her response was so positive, and she has controlled my orgasms ever since. I am so happy that my fantasy is coming true, so thanks a lot for the much needed push <3 We're starting small, but I feel this is the start of a great denial adventure :3
Hi Lilith! How very exciting, that letter really is a big leap so well done, […]
1/2 I bought the purple 7″ suction dildo on lovehoney, as well as a vibrating butt plug (which is so not like me AT ALL), because my only other vibrators were dying. And with my student discount I got a free lipstick vibe, so I thought I’d put the vibe in the dildo or use it on my clit or whatever. So I decided I’d go ahead and throw out my old vibes when I ordered my new stuff and not come until they got here (I’ve never been able to come from just my fingers).
Well the dildo feels amazing, I mean I’ve never gotten so close just from penetration […]
Hi James!! I discovered edging off of your blog a few months ago and it drives me crazy BUT I legit have no self control. I usually edge for about 30 minutes to an hour and then I just can’t stop myself from cumming. Of course once it happens it’s never as good as I expected but I was wondering if you had any tips on having more self control? I love the idea of constantly being on edge and not cumming but I always end up finishing :( help a girl out?
Set a timer, do it for just 20 minutes, and stop, stop as soon as […]
hi james, lucy again. thanks for your advice. i really appreciate it! i didn’t touch at all yesterday because of my mood, but i did end up spinning the punishment wheel today. i got pegs on my nipples + clit for 20 min. i must be a bit of a pain slut… i got wet almost immediately. i ended up teasing my clit w/ a light finger while the pegs were still on. gonna try and find little ways to keep my arousal up w/o overdoing it like last time. the pegs were a great start. ❤️ -lucy
Hi Lucy, I’m glad it was helpful. My experience is we’re all something of a […]
With the comment about balm I wanted to share one of my favourites. You need a small jar (like an empty spice jar) and fill it with lube up to three quarters full. Put in a couple of drops of tobasco sauce- literally only a couple!- the stuff which is just chillis and vinegar. Shake it up and test it- two drops is pretty mild. Then add more as you need to. I have about twenty drops in a tiny jar of lube and I love it, and you choose how strong to make it! (I might add more now actually…)
Oh that really is a homebrew! Some will find chilli more likely to react to […]
Just thought you should know, your blog is flagged again
Yeah I know, I’ve asked for it to be reviewed, we’ll see .