Archive for : January, 2019

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Just a tip for people buying off lovehoney, if you can afford it buy the womanizer starlet. Omg hands down the best toy ever! My boyfriend uses it to drive me wild and it takes seconds to build up. Also if you sign up to their daily deals they send amazing offers

I do hear good things about them but fuck me, who picked that god-awful name!

Clueless boss:‘Oh yes, our target is professional liberal sex toy enjoying women, any name suggestions?’

Neanderthal marketing man: ‘Well she’s a woman right, so we could call it a ‘womanizer ‘cos it like does a woman!’

Dickhead boss: ‘Brilliant, I love it, the Womanizer it is!’

Other brands are DEFINITELY available, but annoyingly the womanizer is still one of the best. Lovehoney have been smart and rebranded it as ‘Desire’, oh and it’s purple, I’m in!

Lovehoney Clit Suction Vibes

Then again you could just grab a lover or even a good friend and suggest you practise this:

Kinda a confession I guess: I’m not into long-term denial myself, but some days I just use your Wheel of Denial a lot! It makes super wet, craving a nice, big cock and some dirty talk, which is funny, because in general I’m quite an innocent girl :) Plus, is there a better way to spend my Saturday? ^^ – Butterfly

I sure can’t think of one. Except maybe getting that hot friend of yours over and sharing the experience? You know the one.

But it’s totally okay to not be into long term denial. It really is. This is important. You can be a fully paid up member of the denial slut club just loving edging for a while and then cumming each time. This isn’t a competition.

I only extol the virtues of a bit longer term because if you manage to hold off for a day or two many find they get this ongoing ‘denial high’ that just makes it all even better! If you’ve never gone that long it’s totally worth trying it just to make sure you’re not missing out. But whether you like to deny yourself for 20 minutes, 20 hours, 20 days or 20 fucking months, we love you here!

To cum, or not to cum… for the first time

I just found out about edging and realised that I’ve been doing this for years! I would get super wet and thought that was cum(I know super silly) or just not want to keep going at that tipping point. I kind of want to see what cumming feels like but I also like how my clit almost always is throbbing and how easily I get wet and horny without much effort.. what do you think I should do? I know someone did ask you something very similar to this and I recon she had cum once after realising what an edge was and was conflicted to go cum crazy for lost time or to keep edging and deny herself.. just curious what you think .. sorry if it’s a repeat question

It’s never a problem, it’s an important question! And it’s not silly, the only silly thing is no one taught you otherwise. Well done for finding out!

I think you should cum. Have an orgasm, have lots in fact. We love denial here, because of what it does for us, how it makes you feel, but orgasms are amazing too. As hot as the idea of never letting you cum is, it’s a hot fantasy. If you can, cum. If you can’t, well come back and I’ll tease the fuck out of you and turn it into a full blown mindfuck. It means you’re a ‘brand new in box’, very special indeed!

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Dear James,

I’ve visited the lovehoney website you mention in your posts several times, and since I got my payday I decided to treat myself and my fiancé with something sexy. I decided to get this and it should be here by Monday or Tuesday. I’m so excited I can’t wait!! I told my roommate that I wear lingerie under my clothes throughout my day and she looked at me like I have 3 heads, but I love the sexy feeling it gives. Plus, you’re all set when you have that surprise evening of delicious fun. 😏 thank you for sharing that site, I plan on making many additions to my growing collection. Would you like to see it on when I receive the package?

You’re so welcome aonon. It really is such a powerful wearing good lingerie underneath your clothes. Even if it’s not for anyone else to see, it’s actually about how it makes YOU feel!

I love you’ve picked peekaboo ones though. If you pair those with the right top you could get your nipples brushing against your top all day and keeping you well stimulated.

And absolutely, we’d love to see, although it might be I can only share it on

If it’s easier you can email things to

Oh and as I’ve just noted, there’s some good savings to be had on lingerie in their Valentine’s sale But can I also make a recommendation if you’re starting to invest in good underwear.

Go get your bra measured – it’s likely you’re wearing the wrong size, and it makes an even bigger difference when you’re wearing good stuff. So find a store that’ll do it, M&S in the UK and Bravissimo are good ones, no idea on the US. Then have a lot of fun trying on different stuff.

And final tip. If you haven’t tried stockings and suspenders (or a garter as they call it in the US) TRY THEM. They not only look great, but they are SO much better than tights (pantyhose). The big lesson is for real life use, you wear your knickers OVER the stocking straps. It makes going to the loo a whole new easy experience, seriously. I got my wife wearing them when we first met and she was all ‘how the hell did no one tell me how great these are?!’

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Does lovehoney do a Valentine’s Day sale? It’s time to buy my first toys but I don’t wanna get them now and then have a sale pop up within a month. thanks!!

Yeah they do in fact it’s just kicked off!

Lovehoney Valentine’s Sale

I’ll do a review soon of stuff I think is a good bargain. Apparently that was very popular when I did it last before Christmas.

Anything I should focus on, toys for couples, or toys for all those who want to just edge their fucking brains out and forget about it all together?

Nope, that’s an image not a button, welcome to Tumblr.

I did have one idea, maybe it’s suitable for Valentine’s I’ve recently been having a lot of fun with some Lush remote controlled vibes – I’m sure you’ve seen them. They’re now absolutely my favourite remote ones. And I noticed they just brought out the ‘Lush 2′ which has some improvements (more power and easier to turn off seem to be the main ones. Also you can turn it off while it’s in you, which is fab.)

Anyway, MY IDEA was…you can safely give out an control of them, which has some serious potential. I was imagining either pairing denial sluts up so they could edge each other via the online remote control… or perhaps a whole group, so you get someone’s control you don’t even know who, and someone else would be controlling yours! Not even the same person perhaps?

Maybe set up a discord group to manage it? Lush Buddies we could call it 😛 An online orgy of denial sluts. Who likes the sound of that? Let me know your thoughts and ideas.

Hi there. I liked your post on staying safe when posting pictures, but perhaps one more point to highlight is removing the metadata from your photos before posting, which can include all sorts of identifying information such as location it was taken.

Very good point, thanks for that! 

For those who don’t know a photo can have stuff buried in it which could be quite personal, such as the name of the device it’s taken on, where it’s been stored, or even as the OP said, the exact location it was taken!

I personally think it’s best to turn off the function of saving where a photo was taken, it’s so easily misused by someone for little benefit. Beyond that there are apps that do it for you, so search for those. And on windows you can go into a photo’s details and choose to make a copy with all metadata wiped.

I decided to play with the wheel tonight, so I put a numbing agent on my clit and nipples and went to spin. I got no touch. So I didn’t touch for an hour even though I wanted to sooooo bad. I spun again and got no touch again! My clit really wants some stimulation right now 😫😫

This seemed a pertinent follow up to that last message 😛

Be careful what you wish for