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I’ve listened to Cal’s curse so many times now but it still hasn’t worked…I seem to lose focus every time I listen to it. My mind just takes off. And then I come here and find all these posts about how it has worked for everyone else, and I get super jealous. I want it to work for me. I want to not be able to cum without permissiom. So so badly. Could you help me figure out how to get it to work? Or am I a lost cause?

I’m not a hypnosis expert (yet) I’m afraid, so all I know is it works […]

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Hi, I’ve been looking at your blog for a while now, and Now I’ve finally had the confidence to ask you a question. So I’ve noticed that most of this blog is talking about a loooong time orgasm denial. Is it bad that I personally wouldn’t really like to be orgasm denied that long… Also, is it a kink or something where people like to be called sluts and stuff? I mean personally I don’t really like that…. This is getting a bit long (ha) but thanks for reading this… Bye

Fabulous questions, thank you! Size doesn’t matter! Short term is totally okay! It’s just once […]

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Do you have any advice about getting to an edge more quickly? Haha it’s difficult practically to do multiple edges when just one takes me an hour. Or more generally, how to keep myself aroused? Like “no touch” days are not difficult at all. Like I’m really into denial, but I think I need to find a way to keep myself more aroused and desperate, because that’s where the fun begins right? If it matters – I have no partner (for now), masochist but not submissive

Well the top answer is to make sure you’re using a good strong vibe. That […]

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I don’t have anyone that I can talk about this to, so I’m going to tell you-hopefully you don’t mind much: So I recently got a dildo, as opposed to the slim vibrators I’ve been prone to buy. All was lovely as I took on this toy-until I got to the edge. Sometimes I’m dedicated on denying myself, for at least a few minutes, but I was fully prepared to cum from this toy. Until I found out I can’t cum from penetration only (8 I have so many mixed emotions on it. But I won’t say I don’t like it ;x

Of course I don’t mind! Thank you for sharing! According to statistics you’re boringly normal, […]