Tag: masturbation

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Ever since owning a vibrator, I’ve always used one to edge. I decided to try things manually today instead. It took me a lot longer to reach an edge with just my fingers, but the arousal has stuck around SO much longer. It’s been hours since I edged and I feel like my clit sensitivity is somehow higher? I got a shower after my last edge and I swore I could feel every trail of water against my clit. This discovery is going to make 2019 very interesting…

by jamesfod

What a great discovery, it’s one of the reasons I suggest a morning edge should […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’m wondering if ‘over-edging’ (like, >50 in a row) can possibly lead to a subdrop, kind of situation within the next 24 hours or so? I was allowed to edge as much as I wanted yesterday and basically edged my brains away before I slept, but I ended up with a horribly restless night, a pounding headache in the morning, and kind of just feeling off and down for the rest of the morning. I can’t seem to find much literature online about this though, so I thought the denial guru could help!

by jamesfod

Yes, doing it that much can definitely have an emotional effect (as well as wear […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey, just wanted to say that I absolutely love you’re blog, and also wanted to ask for some advice. Recently, when I orgasm it feels incredibly underwhelming and a waste of time. I’ve also had an interest in edging for a while but have never really tried it and was wondering if it would make my orgasms any better when I’m actually allowed to cum. Should I try it? And is there anything else I could try that would improve my orgasms?

by jamesfod

You’re very welcome. So yes, one of the major effects of edging and denial is […]

Hey James, I was wondering if you had any advice about masturbating in the same position and relying on porn to get in the right mindset. I almost always edge lying on my stomach- both because it’s easier to view porn hands free and because I like how the position forces my legs apart (a little self bondage is fun too). I’ve been having trouble experiencing pleasure during sex and I know my boyfriend enjoys knowing that he’s making me feel good whether or not I cum. Thank you in advance, Angel
Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hey James, I was wondering if you had any advice about masturbating in the same position and relying on porn to get in the right mindset. I almost always edge lying on my stomach- both because it’s easier to view porn hands free and because I like how the position forces my legs apart (a little self bondage is fun too). I’ve been having trouble experiencing pleasure during sex and I know my boyfriend enjoys knowing that he’s making me feel good whether or not I cum. Thank you in advance, Angel

by jamesfod

Hi Angel, It’s a really good question, as I think it is a problem if […]