Hi James! I’m wondering if ‘over-edging’ (like, >50 in a row) can possibly lead to a subdrop, kind of situation within the next 24 hours or so? I was allowed to edge as much as I wanted yesterday and basically edged my brains away before I slept, but I ended up with a horribly restless night, a pounding headache in the morning, and kind of just feeling off and down for the rest of the morning. I can’t seem to find much literature online about this though, so I thought the denial guru could help!

Yes, doing it that much can definitely have an emotional effect (as well as wear out your poor little clit!). Remember edging is getting your brain to produce feel good hormones that swirl around your system. But like anything, too much of it can be negative – your body and brain just don’t know what to do with it all.

The good news is that a ruined orgasm can flush all that through in my experience. The oxytocin released takes the edge off everything and brings the frustration down to manageable levels.

You’re probably not drinking enough too. Don’t discount how much you leak and perspire edging that much. You need to be keeping hydrated!

So, next time you have a marathon edging session, and feel that way, try a ruin to keep things under control. And let us know how you get on.

James