I ruined an orgasm last night – I know I wasn’t supposed to – and today I put toothpaste on my clit for the first time for my punishment and I edged with it on. It was really painful but I am also throbbing at the thought of doing it again. In the future I think I should do it immediately after I come or ruin, to strengthen the association and maybe make it less of a turn-on. What would you suggest doing in addition to this for punishment?