Okay, so wait, hands up everyone who’d like to try not to cum during June, […]
Month: May 2017
Hi James, I’m considering making June a denial month for myself as a challenge, starting on the 1st. I’ve gone longer without an orgasm, but not while deliberately edging every day as suggested in your (amazing!) blog, so I’m hoping this will be a more enjoyable and challenging go! Thing is, my birthday falls within the month – the 11th – and I’m thinking about giving myself a pass to come on my birthday. What do you think – should I give myself that day off? Thanks for this awesome blog!! – Hy
Great idea! But no, sorry hyacinth, you do this properly. No cumming, all month. Four […]
Your post makes me so wet and horny….. it made me cum earlier today when I was trying to edge myself…. I feel ashamed…..
Don’t feel ashamed! Shame doesn’t do you any good. Just try again, and do better […]
So a while ago I sent an ask about my vibrator dying literally mid-orgasm a whole bunch of times. I decided that the way around it was to just edge and not cum, so I did that for a while. I felt like it held its charge way longer when I did that. AND THEN one day I was like “I’m gonna have an orgasm today. My vibe was pretty fully charged, so I wasn’t worried. Except. It. Died. Mid-orgasm. Again. I’m distraught.
I’ve always wanted to get into the lifestyle (as a female sub looking for a male dom) but I feel like I should get to know the dom as a person first? What’s your view on this? Thanks.
Oh Anon, don’t get me started. I could write an essay on this, a whole […]
hi james! can you link the task with the deck of cards? i couldnt find it for the past hour and i really want to do it again. or do you have other games coming up?
Do you mean Diva’s Task? It took me literally 4 seconds to find by typing […]
Please James, Sir, help me… Im such a slut and I need correct guidance. Edging makes me horny, ruined rgasms makes me horny, no-touch makes me horny, I don’t know what to do, in what order or how much of each anymore.. should I edge or ruin or no touch????!!! I’m sorry sir I’m such a slut.
I want 6 edges one day, no touch the next. I mean fucking strict no […]
I was just wondering, what exactly is ruining? I only just started getting into denying myself orgasms and I see ruining coming up a lot on blogs, etc. But not a lot of posts explain what the full meaning of it is. I was hoping you could help shed some light on it for me, thanks. By the way, your blog was the one that got me into denying, I’ve not had an orgasm for 2 weeks and I’ve never felt better.
Firstly, this is awesome. Well done! Two weeks is amazing! Secondly, the search and tag […]
Hi James! So, my bf isn’t into denial at all, no matter how much I tried to get him to like it. But I can’t help I’m a denial fucking slut, I just love so much the sensation to be denied. He just wants to make me cum all the time, and mostly he does it very well, I hate to admite it. Because I HATE cumming, that’s the truth, I love to feel horny and insatiable all the time, 24/7. What should I do? Fake orgasms to him? I feel like I’m gonna be a terrible fucktoy if I do that to him. – Gabi
Hi Gabi, Okay, this sucks, I’m sorry. The big question is how clearly have you […]