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Thank you for your Wheel of Denial!

Sir’s got me using your Wheel of Denial as part of my homework tonight (here’s my post about all the rules if you’re curious)! I was supposed to do my first spin at 5:00, but I was late getting back from the store and spun it a minute and a half late. I was already really sensitive from some edging earlier and getting fucked hard the night before, so with everything going on I was already pretty nervous and excited when it was time for that first spin.

Juuust as I was thinking about how I’d never actually snapped a rubber band against my clit or tits before, my first assignment came up: 10 snaps, clit, spin. Holy shit do those hurt! My clit was already so sore and sensitive and still tingling a bit from some peppermint oil I’d had on there before.

Each one made me flinch and get wetter at the same time. I went as fast as I could, just wanting to get it over with as the pain and the need to rub my pussy both got worse. Luckily, the next spin landed on “no touch,” which Sir had already decided was my default rule between spins. I’d better make sure I’m on time for my next one!

And updated later…

Well, I just spun the Wheel for the last time for the night! Sir and I definitely both enjoyed the frustration of it, and the way he was able to so easily instruct and tease me from far away while barely having to do anything. After that warning about missing deadlines, I made sure to spin on the hour every hour (although I did post on my blog about Sir’s text warning me SPIN SPIN SPIN as he encouraged me in getting the timing right). Here were the spins I got, hour by hour, with my reactions:

5:00 – 10 snaps, clit, spin – no touch (the same as my default mode between spins)

6:00 – 4 edges (yay! edges!)

7:00 – vibe between labia, 5 mins, spin (I used the magic wand, it was sooo hard not to cum) – no touch

8:00 – 5 edges (the edges left me so frustrated but I was so excited each time I saw that I got to have some!)

9:00 – 5 snaps each labia, 10 clit, spin (owww these stung so bad, my pussy was already so sensitive and I could feel myself getting wetter with each one) – get on the floor, spin (Sir decided that for me, this meant that I had my furniture privileges revoked once I finished the next hour’s set of instructions) – no touch

10:00 – 5 snaps, each nipple and clit (owww more snaps! I think I’ms starting to have more of a love/hate relationship with rubber bands than I ever have…), spin – 3 edges

11:00 – no touch

12:00 – 2 edges

And with those last two edges, it’s time for me to go to bed. I hope you enjoyed reading about my experience, and thank you for your Wheel of Denial and helping me and Sir have a very fun evening together without being able to be together.

This is AWESOME. Thank you so much for the lovely report, it’s exactly what the wheels are for, to give you good ideas where you’re not in control of what happens. Great work and thank you for the lovely feedback!


Check out my various Wheels of Denial

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I ruined an orgasm last night – I know I wasn’t supposed to – and today I put toothpaste on my clit for the first time for my punishment and I edged with it on. It was really painful but I am also throbbing at the thought of doing it again. In the future I think I should do it immediately after I come or ruin, to strengthen the association and maybe make it less of a turn-on. What would you suggest doing in addition to this for punishment?

Band snapping, right on your bare clit (as kinda recommended by Kelly Osbourne’s The-rapist…)

Then again you could try the Wheel of Punishment

All the Wheels of Denial for the curious among you (but if you spin you have to do what it tells you..).

Hello James. Day 2 of the Christmas challenge. It’s 12:18 and my first two edge of the day are done : first one fingers only and second one humping on my pillow. Since my girlfriend and I are apart for the holidays, we’re doing our own version of the Christmas challenge. Christmas Day will be a ruin each on facetime. I was thinking of doing the Coin for each other on January 1st (since we’ll be seeing each other for the first time in weeks), but now I’m thinking of competing for the orgasm.(1/2)

Any thoughts on how to do it? I’d like your input very much. Thank you and have a good day!

Oh wonderful, I love to see my followers taking my ideas and making it work even better for them, well done!

A few ideas, firstly the joint Christmas ruin is a lovely concept, but… it is the time for giving, so here’s a fun little mindfuck you might want to try. You both have to try and give the orgasm to the other person, you only get 100 seconds to both agree who should cum and who just gets ruined, if you can’t agree then you both ruin it. You can’t start discussing it until you’re both on the edge and each of your job is to say why the other one should cum instead of yourself, it’ll be cute.

As for competing when you’re back together, now we’re talking! I think we have something perfect for that already, the Denial Dare Wheel Game

You’ll probably be up for all the tasks (remember you can edit them and make them even more challenging or appropriate to what you guys are into) so really it’s going to be the first one who goes over first (which is ruined) is the loser, and has to make the winner cum as much as she wants. If it’s a tie once all the tasks are done then you have a Jill Off (or you could do this instead of the spinner game, just as fun!).

I hope you have a wonderful time whatever you pick, and do let us know how it goes! Happy Christmas and a Merry New Year!

Sir.. I’ve done something bad.. Last night I was so horny and started playing with my pussy. I was dripping on my sheets, my legs were shaking but I wanted to deny myself. I edged 4 times and then I had an orgasm by accident.. I feel so bad but I just couldn’t help it. I guess I need to be punished.. What should my punishment be?

Let the wheel decide: