Hi James! I wish to join the JuNo challenge, but the problem is that I currently have a dom that quite literally, encourages me to cum. He doesn’t quite understand the thing about orgasm denial (trust me, I’ve tried), and thinks that denial is pointless. It makes me jealous whenever I read posts where doms are denying their subs, and though there is a (small?) mismatch in kinks here, I don’t know if he’s the right one, or if I should just deny myself whenever I can.