Month: May 2018

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hiii! So this has turned me on for a while and I finally had the courage to actually try it out! I’ve been edging for three days and I’m getting so squirmy and shakey and literally wet in an instant… I didn’t think I would last this long seeing it was my first time trying but may I please please cum???

by jamesfod

Yes. Seriously, that’s so great, I’m really impressed. Three days is a perfect first ‘long’ denial. […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Sir, today I had the most intense edge i’ve ever felt… Normally if I edge to hard it ends up in a ruin but this edge… My clit burned like fire. I’ve been edging the whole day and I didn’t cum for a month, so I rewarded myself with an orgasm. I kinda feel guilty about it but my clit is so sensitive right now I can’t even move my legs without my pussy reacting to it. PS: I’m so excited for JuNo!!

by jamesfod

That’s awesome. Don’t feel guilty about cumming once you’ve decided though, make the most of […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

1/3) Sorry for this being so long. Not exactly the same situation with my therapist, but edging was something she actually suggested I try. Anyways my story is that for a long time in my life, I wasn’t able to achieve orgasm. I’d never had a orgasm ever, no matter what I tried, fingers, toys, partners couldn’t get me there. So at 26 I went to see a therapist about this. After a few sessions, she brought up the idea of edging as a technique to get me to orgasm.

by jamesfod

I had always tried forcing myself to orgasm, but could never get there. She suggested […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Non-sexy but important question, James. Denial is a major self-improvement tool for me (I use it to help me achieve goals, etc). I want to mention it to my therapist, but I’m afraid she’ll say that’s a bad thing I have to fix, like some therapists do with, say, asexuality. Do you or any of your followers have any experience, positive or negative, with that? Should I just keep it to myself, or is it pretty much a risk-free move? Thanks ;) oh, and I love the blog! -Julia

by jamesfod

Hi Julia, This is a great question. Firstly thanks for the encouragement. It’s pretty amazing […]