Archive for : May, 2018

I’m starting JuNo with a hitchai wand and g spot vibrator 🌸 and seeing as my birthday is in August, I plan to continue JuNo until at least my birthday (the 9th) or longer. James, would be so kind as to give me date of when I can cum again? And tell me what kind of orgasm I’m aloud to have, a real one, ruined, or forced to cum over and over again until I’m crying

Well clearly your birthday is the obvious choice…

… to spin the wheel for how many more days until you cum:

How long till you can cum?

As for what you get? You missed the option, actually.

You’re to ruin orgasm after orgasm until you can’t any more.

Happy Birthday!

Have you heard about edging? It’s amazing.

I’m going to try the JuNO Edging Challenge – see if everything they say about it is true. I wonder how long I’ll be able to go – 30 days is a long time!

I thought you might like to try too, compare how it makes us feel.

You can read all about it at

I’m going to sign up right now…

Photos from the gorgeous @daddys-denied-bimbo

Hi James I asked you if I could cum and you said no…. Thanks it just makes me so much more turned on when I’m denied

Of course it does. Why do you think I say ‘no’ so much.


I’ve been bouncing back and forth on whether or not to participate in JuNO and think I’m definitely gonna do it! Thank you for running such a fun and enjoyable blog 💕

Lovely to have you join us, Becky!

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Welcome to JuNO 2018 – a month’s celebration of edging and female orgasm denial

Will you take up the JuNO Edging Challenge? #juno2018 from

Last year we held a bit of a spur of the moment event where lots of followers from this blog took up the challenge to not cum in June. Thus JuNO was born!

It was so popular, we’re going to do it again! But with a few tweaks.

As I said last year I want this to be a fun and very positive exercise. We’re not going to have any punishments if you fail, although there will be ‘funishments’ along the way. The whole point of it is to give you the chance to push yourself to explore edging and denial, and know that there are lots of other denial sluts on the journey with you. (Seriously, how hot is that…)

However last year, it still felt to me like there was a bit too much pressure to try and get to the 30 days, and a feeling of failure for all those who didn’t manage it – and while a month is ‘easy’ for some of you experienced denial sluts, it’s eternity for anyone new to this.

So here’s the deal – The whole of June is going to be dedicated to exploring edging and denial, but you decide what your target is.

So if you’re new to this, you may just try it for a day or three, and then cum! Oh but you’re not done, no… if you enjoyed it, try again, maybe longer, give a go to some of the tasks, chat with others doing it, see just how far down the rabbit hole you enjoy falling. 

The objective for JuNO is to do as many edges as you can while having as few orgasms as possible – if you’re feeling happy and horny, it’s working!

You are free to amend any of the basic rules to suit your situation, but try to decide what you’re going to do, and stick with it!

I very much want this to be a communal thing so I strongly encourage you to start a ‘JuNO denial journal’ on your Tumblr and I’ll post as many of them here as I can. If you want to keep it separate from your main account learn how to set up an anonymous secondary blog further down.

Tag everything you post about it with #juno2018

If you are keeping a JuNO Journal please add #junojournal to the post too

You can ‘sign up’ if you wish to. But you can also like and reblog this note as an indicator you are getting involved..

Also totally encourage others to join in! The more the merrier.

As regularly as I can I’m going to add some JuNO Tasks, I’ll be reblogging and commenting on my favourite JuNO Journals, and also adding plenty of educational content. I’ll try and queue these up for most days but this isn’t like the Denial Advent event, the onus is on you to keep on edging, share with the community and make this something we all explore together.

If you really want to get into this think about setting up a secondary blog on Tumblr (they are anonymous) and posting daily updates and more on there. I will feature those heavily!

JuNO – The Basic Rules

  1. The aim is to orgasm as little as you can for the 30 days, while you deliberately make yourself as horny as possible by regular ‘edging’
  2. You are to edge yourself every day with my recommended minimum of three times a day, once before you get up, once last thing in bed, and once during the day – but more edges is great, decide what works for you – life might mean you often do less, that’s fine.
  3. You are to have fun. If you’re not having fun you’re not doing it right
  4. If you accidentally go over the edge into an orgasm before your target date, you must immediately stop all stimulation and so ‘ruin’ the orgasm. If you ruin the orgasm like this you are still on course – but you musn’t ruin again that day and you must try your hardest not to at all (ruins will be given as separate, extra tasks, at points in JuNO).
  5. JuNo is for women (and their partners) and those who identify themselves as such. Sorry boys, I know you love this stuff but you already have Locktober, NOvember and more. This is a ‘girls together’ kinda thing but feel free to try it, just please don’t be messaging me about it, thank you xxx
  6. If you’re late to the party you can start when you want, just follow the tag below to get all the relevant notes and instructions. and for all the main posts from me:

And here for any others all across the Tumblrsphere!


To clarify what an edge is within the context of denial – it is ANY masturbation effort during your denial. It does not matter if you get to THE edge of an orgasm (although it’s great if you can and definitely a goal), as long as it feels good and makes you hornier, it’s an edge.

This also means you can’t do all your edges in one go, just getting to the edge of an orgasm and ‘bouncing there’ a dozen times does not mean you’ve done 12 edges. It’s one, sorry! My month, my rules. You need at least a ten minute gap between reaching the edge of an orgasm and getting yourself back there for it to count again towards your total (Just in case some of you want to go crazy and do lots of edges).

But the main point of JuNo is to just keep horny, have fun, and experience, I hope, the feeling of euphoria associated with longer term denial (the ‘denial high’). It’s also to help you gain greater self-confidence, sexual positivity and to discover, I hope, that you do actually have some self-control!

This is not a competition – it’s a collaborative experience. So please, post updates on your blogs, send me submissions and asks with updates. Anything that I think is of interest will get posted, if it’s positive or negative, share your experience.

Let’s support each other my lovely followers. There are 55,000 of you horny little fuckers following this blog and I know for a fact at least the same who visit every month and get off to it.

Now’s the time, turn the fantasy into a reality. Join in with thousands of women across the world edging and denying their orgasms, not just because it’s kinky and sexy as fuck, but because it makes you feel AMAZING.

So are you ready, my little denial slut? Are you ready to make your pussy drip, your clit ache and show us alljust what you’re capable of?



IT IS! Let’s do this!

Enjoy the last might of your freedom (if you have it…), it’s the last time you cum just when you want to. Edge, read this blog, browse last year’s experiences, think about what target  you are going to set, and sign up here if that’ll add to the fun:

Once you’ve filled that out or committed to doing this however you want…

Put your hand in your panties, right now. Rub that clit and say out loud, ‘I promise not to cum. I am a denial slut’.

Good girl, no going back now. Give me a good edge and get ready for more…

Welcome to JuNO, it’s going to be one hell of a ride!



Hi James, So I’m a lesbian, and I think I’m interested in anal play (maybe I’m spending too much time on your blog lol). I fingered myself today for the first time (carefully as I have long nails), and it didn’t feel amazing but it also wasn’t bad. Do you have any advice for getting into anal, especially since I don’t mess with penises? I looked through your anal training tag and I didn’t see anything for anyone super new to anal. (Sorry or this is long or annoying!)

It’s a great question, and I’m sure I’ve written various bits on it and I will be for JuNO too I’m sure but let’s do a few quick pointers.

  1. Firstly, the easiest and most pleasurable part of anal is just playing at the entrance. The outside and first half inch of your bottom is where most of the nerve endings are. One of the best games is simply masturbating your clit with one hand and your asshole with the other (great shower task).
  2. A big part of the fun of anal is how naughty it feels – so make the most of that, think about being a lesbian anal slut, imagine it was all you were allowed, imagine being put on anal only by some denial bitch – there you go…
  3. If you’re exploring deeper penetration use a safe toy that has a wide base so it can’t slip inside, and use LOTS of lube, I mean LOTS, not spit, not water, proper slippery lubricant. It makes a world of difference.
  4. Try a butt plug – again, while it can feel kind of nice, the MAIN point of it is the mind fuck of ‘oh my god I have a toy in my asshole’

My favourite plugs are listed here They have a little ball inside that rolls around as you move. So hot.

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Hi James! I’ve never had the self control to really deny myself, and my partner is pretty vanilla. It’s going to be a week before we see each other again, and I told them that since it’s difficult for me to cum if I’ve cum recently (which is true) I wasn’t going to cum all week. They said the idea was hot.. and here we go! My first denial ☺️

ok so i’m terrified of trying penetration. i’m sure i’ll like it when i do try, but i’m scared it will hurt. i’m also too scared to use tampons for the same reason. any tips ????

Get informed, get horny, get relaxed, give it a go.

Get informed by making sure you understand how your body works, reading up on your hymen on here and elsewhere for example

Then get yourself really horny by edging a lot, thinking about fucking watching porn of it, aching to have something inside you.

Then get really comfortable, a warm bath or cosy in bed. Somewhere you have privacy and time to do this.

And then begin to explore, just with fingers first, nails cut so they don’t scratch. Spread your legs wide, edge at the same time, so rub your clit with one hand and finger yourself with the other. Just get curious, and feel sexy as you do it. It’s your body, get to know it.

Slip a finger in, keep edging hard and while fingering might hurt a little, that will be negated by the pleasure so it’s a great combination.

If you can get any a bit of lube, or KY jelly or even unperfumed lotion on your fingers will again make it feel even better.

Once you can comfortably fuck with one finger work up to a couple of them.

Fingering like this rarely feels THAT good because for most women the real pleasure point inside you is your g-spot and that’s a bit too deep in to reach by yourself with your own fingers. Which is why you want to work up to using a slim dildo or a DIY equivalent

You’ll know you’ve got to your g-spot because it’ll feel odd at first, and you might feel a little urge to pee but do NOT back off, keep at that and soon it will start to feel amazing, it’s kinda like your clit but inside and can be treated more roughly (it’s designed for a cock to be pounded back and forth over it…).

But that’s for later, for now, take it slowly, have fun, get really horny before you do anything, don’t worry about it hurting too much, when you’re on the edge, it all feels good.

Let us know how you get on!