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Hello James, I love you blog been following a long time now. I recently started edging regularly myself, and i am curious about the upcoming juNO. It is kind of an extra special thing for me i think because my birthday is in June. The idea that this is an event every June means that if i follow it i am essentially getting a month of denial for my birthday every year is a fun and rather arousing way to look at it for me, blushes. I just thought i would share that. thanks for the edges :p ~ Nicole

Hi Nicole, What a wonderfully positive way to think about it, I love it. Thank […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

What’s the mildest or most gentle cream or balm you can suggest for rubbing on my wife’s clit? She’s not into pain at all, but is usually willing to try stuff, and I want something that will have her thinking of / aware of her clit, especially if we use it before going out in public. I’ll probably have yo try it on myself first, so be gentle. :) Love the blog.

Any of the orgasm balms from somewhere like Lovehoney or your own preferred toy store […]

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James, I just want to thank you for your crotch rope tutorial. I’ve not got much money, so I’m always looking for DIY toy ideas, and I was intrigued by that. I’ve had a lot of string that I had no idea what to use it for, and now I’ve suddenly found a use. I’ve only had it on for 10 minutes but already I’m unbearably horny. And I don’t even have to do anything to edge. I don’t have to touch myself, I can just rock and let the rope press on m clit. It’s magic.

God I hope Amy Adams wears crotch ropes. Thanks Anon! Glad it’s working for you!

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Hi James, I saw your post about models edging before photoshoots/ catwalks and wanted to share something similar. I’m a dancer and an hour or so before a performance I edge. I’ve found that it makes me more passionate and engaged with my dancing and it’s become part of my pre-performance routine. (Please excuse my english, it is not my first language) -Sora

Hi Sora, That’s so fascinating to hear, thank you. I can just imagine how it […]

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O.o i used to be able to solve cramps woth orgasms. But recently, all it does is bring them back o.o but edging takes helps it go away o.o and even ruined orgasms make it worse. I can’t have any release on my period. Whyyyyyy oh whyyy o.o well i guess it’s time to start and try out a week of denial o.o if you want, you can give me a set emount of edges each day and so what. Or just let me edge every time i cramp. Welll this is gonna be hard either way o.o

I do find this fascinating. If edges really do prove better at reducing period pain […]