Crickey, three years! That’s, a very long time. Oh wait, only ‘nearly’ three years… seems a […]
Month: May 2018
Just wanted to let you know that I just found your wheel of denial and it’s honestly the hottest thing ever. I love edging but I’ve always been so bad at it, always giving in when I felt like it. But I did exactly what your wheel said and now I desperately want to just touch myself and come, but I’m making myself wait a hour so I can spin the wheel again. Thank you so much
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I’m not sure which is better: the fact that my Dom gave me permission to play at work the other night because of how worked up he got me (through text) or that he hasn’t let me cum in four weeks. I don’t know what I crave more- the release or more denial.
Answers: 1) B 2) A Am I right?
Hi James, I’m considering making June a denial month for myself as a challenge, starting on the 1st. I’ve gone longer without an orgasm, but not while deliberately edging every day as suggested in your (amazing!) blog, so I’m hoping this will be a more enjoyable and challenging go! Thing is, my birthday falls within the month – the 11th – and I’m thinking about giving myself a pass to come on my birthday. What do you think – should I give myself that day off? Thanks for this awesome blog!! – Hy
female-orgasm-denial: Great idea! But no, sorry hyacinth, you do this properly. No cumming, all month. […]
So James, I was originally looking up your blog on Tumblr, until suddenly I couldn’t find it any more. I was pretty sure it was still out there somewhere, so I told myself I couldn’t cum again until I found it. This was around 6 months ago. I discovered your blog again a few days ago, and I’ve just remembered my little goal for myself. I have definitely not been orgasm free for 6 months, in fact I entirely forgot. Which brings me to this: can you suggest a punishment for me?
We like to hide every so often, make people hunt for us. It’s kind of […]
Hi James. I love edging and teasing and being in denial. I love your blog I’m a huge fan there is something I’m looking for though and I’m hoping you can help me out. I’m trying to find a blog or erotica that adds both the telling someone what to do like you do in your blog plus also adding a story like in erotica novels. I haven’t yet found any blog or erotica or anything that has edging, teasing, and denial for women plus what I said above. Can you please help me out?
Am I sure I didn’t write this? By a very strange coincidence, I’m working on […]
Hey James, so lately I’ve been noticing all these JuNo posts. I’m fairly new in denial, but still wanted to try it. Can you explain what it is and share any advice on things to try?
JuNO is something we came up with last year on the spur of the moment, […]
Hi! First time asking. You have good ideas, so maybe you can help? I often read about fun in denial and all D/s dynamics. I seems like sub girls realy enjoy this! But since i started play with my Dom i dont feel any of this good feelin that ppl describe :(i tried to talk bout this to my Dom but he explain its not about my needs but about his and i must learn to take happiness only from pleasuring him cus i dont deserve care and respect. Plz tell me what Im doing wrong? How to be better sub?
You aren’t doing anything wrong. Your ‘dom’ is an asshole, that’s the problem. Incompetent, probably abusive, […]