Yes, stop being so afraid to take risks.
If you have that attitude to this you probably take it with everything. What do you think is going to happen?
Quit with the ‘What if’ doom scenarios and just give it a go…
Better failure than regret!
Just try it, right now!
As for baby steps, edge once, and don’t cum… if you like it, do it again! If you like how that leaves you feeling, try going a whole day, then a day and a night and then three days (that’s when the really good stuff kicks in) and then TAAA DAAA oh look it was fun and you tried something new!
Congratulations on becoming a denial slut.
You are now fucked, and you adore it.