Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’m getting into edging a few times a day but I just get so so so sore. I’m just doing clit stimulation and it gets to the point where after a few hours between edges I’m so raw and sore that I just don’t feel good anymore. Before I started edging I could only touch maybe three times a week if they were far enough apart because otherwise I’d be in so much pain. I’m not sure if I’m just sensitive or I’m going to hard, but I want to keep edging! What do I do?

That’s definitely unusual, you shouldn’t need to rub that hard to make yourself so sore. […]

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I feel like there’s a lot of catty “I’m better than all these other girls b/c I’ve gone x wks/mths without an orgasm and they’ve only ever gone y.” Get over yourself! If you want to go months, then good for you. If someone is new or just wants less and only goes 3 days, awesome for her! It’s not a competition. This is supposed to be a fun and hopefully empowering experience for everyone. No one is better and no one is worse. We all want slightly different things and that should be celebrated.

Amen! I couldn’t agree more! I hope I don’t extol the virtues of long term […]