What a lovely question, I’m go glad you asked. As far as I’m considered we’re […]
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Regarding the crotch rope anon who doesn’t like how it feels on her butt, is it possible to make a crotch rope like a jock strap? Like, have a knot at your perineum, and have the rope tails go up over the butt cheeks.
Yep, this is totally the answer – thank you, and to the person who’d added […]
Hi James! I am a Domme who’s in love with orgasm denial. And today I’ve found the way of introducing it into play without switching roles. I will say that I’m addicted to masturbation and orgasms and will order my sub to be in control of my sexual pleasure, all of it, with me still being in control of everything else. Hope it works :} Wish me best of luck! Also, thank you so much for running this blog and answering all the incoming asks, you are awesome! j~
Oh how lovely to hear from a domme! I wish I got to all the […]
So my dom and I have been dabbling in denial, but I’m only not allowed to orgasm when she’s not around. How do I tell her I want to be denied during sex too? Tonight is the first time in a week I’ve gotten to see her and we’re going to dinner, I want her to play with me and then take me home and fuck me senseless but not be allowed to orgasm the entire time. What do I say?
You’ve just expressed it beautifully! Be brave and tell her. Send her a message with, ‘So […]
Hey James! So I’ve found a dom on fl. He’s asking for access to my social media. It’s skeeving me out. This was after a lot of talk. I mentioned it made me uncomfortable. What should I do?
Run to the hills! Seriously, that’s like Step 2 in the ‘I’m going to blackmail you […]
I’ve listened to Cal’s Curse I think every day but one since I sent you that last ask, my Dom is loving it! The Curse is making it actually kind of difficult to edge each time, it takes ages of touching, but when I stop it leaves me way more aroused than usual. In the past denial really hasn’t been my thing, but he’s devised a game that introduces it slowly into my life, and now I kind of don’t have a choice.
are you a Dom for more than one sub?
Kinda… ‘dom’ does apply in a few rare cases but it’s mostly a teaching and training […]