Dear James, I adore your blog and wanted to thank you for showing me a new way of submitting and feeling pleasure. As much as I love the idea of edging and denial I’ve struggled to actually do it. However when I got my period I decided to go on “no touch” until it finished. (normally I’d play anyway) it’s been 4 days and I’ve just touched my clit for the first time. It’s so sensitive and needy. I’m going to have a ruin right now. What should I do after that? E x

Hi E, 

Try for two more ruins… multiple ruined orgasms.

You can do it! (But it won’t be easy)


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