Told a guy I’ve been sexting with that I’m into denial and pointed him towards your blog to convince him that it’s even hotter than making me cum, so here’s hoping he helps me on my way to being complete denial slut ;)

Good girl. Just know you’re completely fucked if he reads this: https://edging.space/post/157240617903/the-greatest-valentines-gift Or actually, this… https://edging.space/post/160445894488/i-have-something-to-ask-you And whatever you do,…

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This has been a great gateway into edging and ruined orgasms… It’s very new to me but I’ve been trying it out at any opportunity, slowly building up. Today I was challenged to use my massage wand to edge, and unsurprisingly I failed, but that ruin was SO good! I am so desperate to get filled right now… I’m sure it’s past my bedtime though so my drippy pussy will have to wait! Thanks for the inspiration and advice you give, it’s been great!

You are so welcome. Always lovely to get feedback like this. James

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I’m just starting with denial, I’ve been edging, for almost two days and I haven’t cum. Would you suggest that I go for another few days? Start throwing in some ruined orgasms? I am nowhere near climbing the walls, just constantly wet and throbbing. Any advice is welcomed and thank you in advance 🙂

Welcome to the party! I suggest you go one more day, two at the most. You’re doing brilliantly, this isn’t…

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Hi James! I’m fairly new to edging and denial in general. I recently thought I’d only edge until I’m back from my holiday which is in 7 days. I’ve now been edging for 3 days and I’m a very horny and wet mess. Do you think I should set a number of edges for every day? Thanks. And love your blog. – K.

If you’re new to it then that’s ambitious to go that long so don’t put too much pressure on yourself.…

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Dear James, I adore your blog and wanted to thank you for showing me a new way of submitting and feeling pleasure. As much as I love the idea of edging and denial I’ve struggled to actually do it. However when I got my period I decided to go on “no touch” until it finished. (normally I’d play anyway) it’s been 4 days and I’ve just touched my clit for the first time. It’s so sensitive and needy. I’m going to have a ruin right now. What should I do after that? E x

Hi E,  Try for two more ruins… multiple ruined orgasms. You can do it! (But it won’t be easy) James

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Hi James. I used to orgasm when I play with myself but yesterday I decided to start my denial journey. I got so close to an orgasm and I pulled my hand away. At that very desperate moment my pussy clenched and I think I got a ruined as I wanted to touch it more. Is there anyway to avoid any orgasm including ruined orgasms? Btw love your blog <3

Just stop a little earlier, sweetie. Well done though. Practise will make perfect!

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