Well no, I don’t think guys should be allowed to be edged, just locking up your cock is much more effective for guys than simple no touch is for most girls, in my experience. But edging on top of that enhances it even more and makes it all the more intense. But it’s more optional, and if you don’t have the self control to manage it it’s better to just keep you locked up as the end results are the same.
In terms of timing, a ruin every week or two, and an orgasm at most once a month is a good objective to aim for.