Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

hi james. i had been denying myself since dec 26th with the intention of going for a few weeks. last night, i was edging to porn and ended up finding a vid that aroused me too much that i lost control and ended up cumming. since then, i’ve felt pretty depressed and disappointed with myself. 😔 do you have any tips for overcoming this feeling? thanks. -lucy

Feeling like this is natural when we fail at anything. and with the heightened emotions […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I’m quite upset. I like denying myself but I decided it could be fun to listen to Cal’s curse. Left it on as I slept and the next time I tried to edge, I came. I’ve denied myself for about a month and then I came, and I came again later that day trying to edge again. I’ve successfully edged and denied myself for a whole year before and this thing has gone stupidly wrong and had the exact opposite effect. I don’t wanna cum. ;(

I have to say, that’s the first time I’ve heard that it’s had the opposite […]

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Hi! I wrote in recently about accidentally ruining after five days of edging. Being told I was a good girl made me really happy and stopped me feeling guilty, so thank you! I needed that. It also made me pretty drippy. I’ve been edging four or five times a day since I wrote in, but I’ll spend the next week following your instructions. The thought of clamping my poor nipples while I edge is so hot. Maybe I’ll write in again next week to beg for my orgasm. Thank you for my reward! :D

You’re so welcome! Thank you for the lovely follow up. While there’s always space from […]

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Hey James, so I’m a Daddy and my precious little girl is a very anxious sub. She’s the kind of person who panics and drowns if you mind fuck her, so it’s completely out of the question, which we both don’t appreciate. Deep down she likes it, but in previous times we’ve tried it it got to the point of a panic attack or locking up. She’s really scared of safe wording, she’ll sooner dissociate than use the safe word. I’m running out of characters, so I’ll have to make another ask, hold on.

Anyway, I’ve tried being as helpful as I can, reminded her to safe word, aftercare-ing […]