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Hi! I’m pretty new to this, I’ve always known about it, but I’ve never really wanted to try it until now. I like the idea of having this constant secret of being denied always there, I guess. Anyway, I’m a female, if that’s important, but I’m having so much trouble with edging. I’m self-denying, but every time I can’t seem to stop myself from going over the edge. Do you have any tips? Thank you! Love the blog!

Thank you for the lovely ask. The answer is pretty simple. Don’t go so close […]

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Hi, James! I stumbled across your blog and I’ve never tried orgasm denial before. I’m insanely curious. I scrolled far enough to read what edging and ruining is (I think). And uhm, I’m super new and really embarrassed, but would you mind horribly giving me a task? If I like it, I want to bring the idea up with my husband, but I’m really nervous and scared. I’m also more turned on then I’ve been in a long time thanks to your blog. Please remember I’m a newbie! And thanks so much! -Elise

Hi Elise! Welcome to the wonderful world of denial. A nice simple starter, you’re just […]