So I’ve never really experimented or fantasized about denial before but since I’ve joined tumblr I’ve found that I’ve been super distracted by sexual urges and it’s stopping me from getting things done. I want to try something where I can’t even like touch myself for a day if I don’t get my checklist of things done the previous day. Is this a good way to go about it? Or just any tips you have to succeed with it?

Well firstly cut down your Tumblr use, restrict access to it with an app such as those recommended here:

https://www.inc.com/jeremy-goldman/6-apps-to-stop-your-smartphone-addiction.html

And then yes, if you can, try to edge as a reward for actually having achieved things (those edges feel the best).

But you’ve got to have some basic self discipline to be able to start this and keep it up. But if you do, even a little bit, you’ll find that self-discipline grow, and that’s genuinely the key not only to this, but a more successful and fulfilling life.

Not even kidding, check out the Marshmallow Test:

https://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/search/marshmallow

As for tips, don’t try to do too much. A few days denial is just as praiseworthy as months, it’s all good and hot and healthy. You just have to find what works for you. If doing more than that is messing with the rest of your life then it’s an addiction not a positive kink and habit. Take a break, refocus on what’s important and then get back into it when you’re feeling up to it.

James