Hi James, Thank you so much for the June challenge! It’s going to be hard for me, because I’d already not cum for 8 days before June, but it’s a great goal :) I won’t be able to stick to the schedule because of my partner, but I’ll edge 3 times a day, I promise! I have a question/comment on ruining though – I’ve read your posts on ruining, and the cum vs ruin dichotomy… I’ve realised that I’ve ruined practically all of my cums the past 5 years, unknowingly.. it’s really easy for me to ruin..

It’s so easy for me to ruin that occasionally I’ve made cummies in my chastity belt just from watching hypnotic videos when I’ve not cum for a long while… and obviously I’m not touching myself at all then… I think I need to try very hard not to ruin, but I’m so glad it’s allowed… I’m definitely heading towards the “When I cum it’s a ruin, when I ruin it’s a cum” Mantra 😀 Thank you so much for the opportunity to drive us wild this month x

You are so welcome Sammy! But yes, hold back those ruins too, you’ll be told when they’re allowed, so do your hardest just to edge and ache, that’s what we want for now.

Great to see you’re just being flexible to accommodate your partner, that’s just the way it should be. I’ll set out a basic way of doing it and then all of you are free to adapt it to the way that works best for you. It’s not a competition, it’s a collaboration!

James