Hello. Your comment about lesbian dommes being psycho bitches seemed kind of unnecessary. I’m a woman with a female submissive, and we both know that we would go to the ends of earth for each other. I trust her; she trusts me. Absolutely. She is both my slut and my princess, and I adore her. Your words seemed to be based on a small sample, so hello – I’m an even smaller sample. Go on. Overgeneralise me. :)

You’re quite right, it was based on a small sample, and as Mark Twain said, ‘All generalisations are false (including this one)’.

As I said, it’s just been my experience. Although I’ve also had other messages from women supporting it – so I guess the one thing we can be sure of is your princess slut (the best combo) is very lucky to have you!

And sadly as I added at the time, the quality of the male doms out there isn’t any better either, but mostly because they are selfish assholes just after wank fodder (again, of course there are exceptions). 

The underlying point is that if you’re looking for a dom of any persuasion, be SUPER careful, don’t have high expectations and get carried away in some fantasy – it’s very easy to only see the best of someone in an online relationship.

Read more of my thoughts on it here including the excellent ‘Acid Test’

Ultimately, in my opinion, you’re best off finding someone you love who has dominant qualities, and exploring the journey of both of you going deeper into D/s together.