Hi! I recently went two weeks without cumming, the first no touching and the second edging about 5 times a day. My Sir was supposed to see me yesterday but ended up not being able to, and skyped me to let me cum once and I’m back to edging until next weekend. It’s getting really difficult to put anything on me and extremely difficult to stop. Any advice on tactics for a lady trying really hard to please her Sir and not cum?

It sounds like you’re doing really well! Two weeks is impressive (IMO though putting the edging week first followed by the no touch would be way hotter).

My advice is simple really, try to worry less and enjoy it! You’re doing brilliantly, stop detracting from that by worrying you’re going to fail. If you do slip over, you ruin the orgasm, but that’s fine! And then that’s just another new experience to throw into the mix. This is supposed to be fun and sexy, so focus on the positive, how energised and horny you feel, the delicious ongoing control it forces you to experience. And make sure to let him know how it’s making you feel, and the effects on you, he’ll love that.

Oh and next time he can’t see you, and you’re desperate to cum, ask him instead to offer you ‘the choice’. ‘Which would you rather, baby, you tell me…’let me cum’ or ‘deny me’?’

We all know which you’d pick.