Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

So you recently told a follower who said long term denial was making her depressed she should come, “unless it’s a punishment.” Don’t you think of a dom is giving a punishment that negatively affects the sub’s mental health, that’s a problem? Would you carry out that sort of punishment yourself? That seems like crossing a line between kink and abuse.

Good follow up question, thanks anon. This post is what anon is referring to: http://edging.space/post/172596379325/i-was-recently-given-3-days-of-no-touch-instead […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

I have a bit of a conundrum. The way I get to an orgasm quickest is by clenching/squeezing my vagina while rubbing my clit. I am currently edging and not having orgasms, but I’m so used to clenching to cum faster that I do it reflexively whenever I masturbate, and I want my edging sessions to last longer. I have to stop so much earlier than I want because I can’t stop myself from squeezing my muscles to make it feel better when I play with my clit. Do you have any advice? Thanks!

So, some things to try: Try edging with your legs wide open. Keeping them that […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, My family has been visitin me down in college for the last week aka I haven’t had much privacy lately. I have been sneaking off to edge whenever I’m alone and watching porn while in the bathroom and edging myself discreetly at night (my sister and i shared a bed and everyone else was lyin bout since i onlhy have one room). They just left today – any tips on what i should do to celebrate?

Hi James – same anon with the family staying with her. I forgot to mention […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I’ve been travelling around another country for two weeks now and staying on campsites in a tent; because im sharing my tent with a family member i havent touched myself since the start but todat in the shower i couldn’t help myself and edged but didnt cum because of two other women entering the showerblock (it’s cubicles but still—); thing is that i have always enjoyed the idea of denial however i’ve never done it long term but it’s all i’ve been thinking about all day now (1/2)

Random dirty thoughts have been popping up in my mind (for longer than today tbh) […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James! I was just wondering how do I know for sure if Cal’s Curse worked on me or not? I just listened to it a few times in a row while edging & I didn’t come but I don’t know if that was because of it or just because I just didn’t let myself, if that makes sense? I have pretty awful self control & I feel like if I just edged normally without having listened to it, I would have ended up coming but I didn’t want to try to go any further in case I did come. Either way, I’m a mess right now haha

You listened, you rubbed, you didn’t cum. It’s working. Good girl, keep it going.

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James. So I’ve recently found the idea of orgasm denial but the more I read the more I wonder if I’ve been in denial all along? I didn’t explore myself much before my boyfriend, and knew I hadn’t had an orgasm. But when me and my bf got to together he showed me what an “orgasm” was although I’m not sure now if he did ? I’m always wet, horny and never feel satisfied after an “orgasm”. So I guess what I’m trying to say is I think my bf’s been denying me all this time and I didn’t even know it

Oh but he knew…